First of all, from the moment he was born, you should transfer all your thoughts to him. You are worried that you will get hurt because of your carelessness and negligence. You worry that he doesn't have enough to eat, and you worry that he doesn't wear warm clothes; When he sneezes, you worry that he is ill. He burps, you worry that he will be out of breath and so on. These worries are the biggest stress. You must be a qualified mother and always pay attention to him.
Secondly, before he was a minor, you paid for his food, clothing, housing and transportation. You should start to be careful about his expenses. You should start bargaining with your aunt at the food market to buy an onion. You'd rather buy yourself one less dress than a fun toy. Isn't the demand for money the biggest pressure?
Thirdly, after infancy, he slowly began to learn the knowledge of the world and the ability to take care of himself. You are the best tutor, but you always want to guide him in the best direction, and you begin to constantly question some of your bad habits. You are worried that you will mislead him, and so on. You are worried that you will raise an unworthy child. This kind of pressure is estimated to be only understood by your mother!
Finally, it is the mother who is responsible for giving birth to him, raising him and raising him, although the three-character scripture says that it is the father's fault to raise or not to teach. Judging from the current social situation, how many fathers can really teach their children now? Parents' meeting, homework check and signature, parent-child activities, 90% of what you will always see is your mother's figure.
Mothers stand guard in their own jobs, but also strive to play the role of mothers, and at the same time do a good job of wives, and every post does not dare to drop the line. In this way, can the pressure be less?