1. In many relationships, it’s not that the old one is good, nor that the new one is good, but that after experiencing something together, you really feel that the other person is good. This is the reason why you should take it seriously. A heart-wrenching relationship.

2. I used to be ignorant, and I would always talk earnestly and laboriously to some people who were unreasonable. Now I understand that it doesn’t make much sense to communicate with someone who is not on the same frequency, even if you forgive him tens of thousands of times a minute. After all, people who don’t want to understand you can’t explain it, but people who understand you will naturally understand.

3. Are you like this too: habitual collapse and self-healing every once in a while, as if you are creating suspense and waves in your life.

4. The biggest fear is not that you will not get anything in return for your efforts; it is that you will be disliked even if you pay with all your heart!

5. You must know how to stop giving without getting anything in return. Otherwise, you will disturb others and hurt yourself.

6. You must get used to anyone's hotness and coldness, and you must also look down upon anyone's drifting away.

7. The reason why others would rather endure it than to tell you about many things is to save you some face and hope that you can realize it.

8. When you are at a low point, think about it carefully. Even if you can't save any money now, you can save some knowledge, friendship, experience, or at the worst, some lessons.

9. I don’t know how to ask or mention. When I feel sad, I just keep walking alone. I don’t know how to argue or make trouble. When my heart hurts, I replace everything with silence.

10. People in the world are greedy and always want to find the best of both worlds, but there is no such thing as a best of both worlds. A hundred years of life is nothing more than teaching people how to choose.

11. The basis for being able to play happily together is that both parties have the ability to flip the table and the cultivation not to flip the table. This is true in business, and so is marriage.

12. A person with a clean heart, clear thinking, and no unnecessary emotions and delusions will give people a sense of security. Because he does no harm to others, nor does he harm himself. Don't cause trouble and don't trouble others. To some extent, this is a form of discipline.

13. IQ determines your lower limit, and EQ determines your upper limit. The degree to which you make people comfortable with your words can determine the height you can reach.

14. What can bind a woman is not necessarily love, but companionship. Enjoying the care of others can become addictive. This is why the one who loves you can always defeat the one you love, because the needs of human nature are essentially the same: we come to this world alone to find someone who can treat us well.

15. No matter where you are, when you think of the other person, you feel at ease. It feels good to feel like you belong.

16. Say goodbye to the time you can’t go back. Please be happy in the days to come. No matter what life brings, don’t forget to smile. May you be your own sun, without relying on anyone else’s light.

17. Smart people talk sweetly, annoying people can act, but you know nothing, so you can only be deceived.

18. Don’t give me any sudden care. Not every time you appear I will feel happy. If the ending is not what I want, then I would rather not be involved in the process. I don’t want to humble myself anymore, and I won’t keep being humble. Once the scar is healed and the pain is forgotten, I won’t keep doing it. If you don't love it, please leave. If you don't hesitate, I won't love you either.

19. There is not much youth left, but I have not aged completely. I am neither embarrassed nor embarrassed nor am I inferior. I really have nothing to talk about. I have very few emotions and I don’t want to spend any more energy to fight against it. What, what people are leaving behind is a pile of cigarette butts and deep boredom. No matter how beautiful the sweet words are, they are not as good as the single and free life I have today.

20.What is maturity? ——You still like the things you like, but you don’t have to own them; you are still afraid of the things you fear, but you can face them.