Classic inspirational one:
Heroes have suffered many hardships since ancient times.
Everyone will encounter setbacks, and whether they can be handled properly is an important test of psychological quality.
"Nine times out of ten, life is adversity." The road of life is mostly bumpy, natural and man-made disasters, birth and death, emotions and sorrows are human nature. We often call these setbacks. In social psychology, frustration refers to the psychological state when individuals encounter obstacles and interference when engaging in purposeful activities, and their motives are not satisfied. Frustration is caused by objective things, but frustration itself is a subjective psychological experience. When an individual's important motivation is hindered, he feels depressed, but when his small motivation cannot be realized, he does not agree.
For the same kind of failure, because the pursuit and expectation are different, the sense of frustration is different. For example, two young people are admitted to the university at the same time, one is not demanding and the other is looking forward to going to a famous university. Finally, they were admitted to ordinary universities. Then one is beaming, and the other may be deeply disappointed. Frustration has both advantages and disadvantages. It can stimulate motivation and make everyone rise from adversity. As the saying goes, "heroes have suffered more since ancient times" and "failure is the mother of success". Of course, setbacks also give people anxiety and pain. Long-term setbacks or major blows are easy to collapse. Because of different personalities and life experiences, different people have different tolerance potential for setbacks.
In Qi Zhuanggong, there was a warrior named Bin Beiju, who was famous for his bravery. One night, he dreamed of a strong man, burly, wearing a white silk hat, with dazzling red linen outside and cotton-padded clothes inside; There is a red silk tassel on the hat, a pair of brand-new white satin shoes on his feet and a black sword bag on his body. The strong man walked up to Bin Beiju, shouted at him and spat in his face.
Binbeiju flew into a rage and woke up suddenly, only to find that it was a dream. Even so, he was very angry and stayed up all night.
At dawn the next day, Bin Beiju invited all his friends and told them about his dream the night before. Then he said to his friend, "I have advocated courage since I was a child, and I have never been bullied or insulted for 60 years." But last night, I was so insulted in my dream, how can I swallow this tone in my heart? I must find the person who dares to scold me and spit on me in my dream. If I find him in three days, I will
Revenge is necessary; If I can't find him in three days, I'll be ashamed to live in the world! "
So, every morning, Bing Beiju took her friends and stood on the main road where pedestrians used to be frequent, looking for someone who looked exactly like him in his dream. However, three days later, they never saw a brave man dressed like a dream. Binbeiju returned home in despair, sighed, and then drew his sword and committed suicide.
How stupid it is to hold on to a little unhappiness in a dream and even commit suicide and give up on yourself! Although this is an extreme example, many people around us are unable to solve their psychological problems because of setbacks, and they are worried about it, which affects their normal lives. (inspirational personality signature)
In fact, setbacks are inevitable for everyone, such as family members who are seriously ill, but far away from home, unable to get back in time; After a serious illness, it will take some time to recover from the effective medicine. These are all insurmountable personal potentials. The formation of setbacks has both internal and external causes. The internal factors are: individual physical defects, the gap between intelligence, talent, knowledge and culture, and the conflict of various needs, such as the difficulty for color-blind people to realize their desire to learn or paint; Being sick, unable to do his job; The distress of the contradiction between family and career, and so on. External factors include natural environmental factors and social factors, among which social factors cause the greatest setbacks and injuries. Romeo and Juliet died because of family conflicts, and lovers can't be married. Talented people are rejected, attacked by jealousy, and so on.
In the face of similar blows, some people are firm, while others are decadent and depressed. This "frustration tolerance" difference is related to personal values and outlook on life. "Frustration resistance" is also related to a person's personality. Open-minded and extroverted people can calmly deal with setbacks and transfer depressed emotions with intentional external activities; Melancholy introverts are overly sensitive to things, love to worry about themselves, and the potential of encountering setbacks is naturally fragile. Personal life experience, health status and other factors will also affect the "frustration tolerance." Mr. Lu Xun once said: "Smile to meet the tragic bad luck." This should be our motto when we encounter setbacks.
Classic inspirational 2:
Carrying the hardships in life
No one can succeed casually without experiencing wind and rain and seeing rainbows. "Jackie Chan's song" True Hero "reminds us all the time that life will shine after the test of hardships. What is suffering?
Depression said: plastic mold suffering is endless trouble.
Failure theory: suffering is dizziness after being knocked down.
Cowardice says: tribulation is endless thorns and bumps.
Brave people who dare to face life say: tribulation is the precious wealth of life, and life needs tribulation.
Mencius, an ancient sage, once said, "If heaven is going to be a great event, he must first suffer from his mind, work hard on his bones and muscles, starve his body and skin, start from his weakness and mess with his actions." So he is patient and benefits from his incompetence. " Yes, the hardship of ranking American universities can stimulate people's fighting spirit, hone their will, increase their talents and test their character. Suffering is pressure, motivation and great power to inspire people to forge ahead! (the most classic sentence)
Ancient and modern Chinese and foreign celebrities and sages have gone through hardships and finally succeeded everywhere.
During Beethoven's creation, deafness suddenly came, which made him miserable, depressed and once desperate. But Beethoven stubbornly struggled to "seize the throat of fate." It is this kind of suffering that makes him have such immortal works as Symphony of Destiny.
Ostrovschi is also a man who has experienced many hardships. The revolution, struggle and work of FRP fans in their early years were full of ups and downs. Faced with paralysis, blindness and dying, he wrote a masterpiece "How Steel was Tempered" with an unimaginable legacy.
Yes, "heroes have suffered a lot since ancient times, and they are not arrogant or impetuous." "It is precisely because he can bear hardships that Qu Yuan was exiled and given Li Sao, and Sima Qian was jailed to write historical records; A Bing, who can endure hardship and be blind, lit up the lights of the concert hall with a touching erhu, which made the bumpy life full of beautiful poetry; Lu can bear hardships. Zhang Haidi, a paraplegic, let go of her dreams in a wheelchair, writing, painting, translating and singing, which made her life busy and full of fun and made her life almost perfect.
It is suffering that makes their ideal sea of peace stir up magnificence; It is suffering, and the membrane structure makes their gentle soul music play a magnificent melody. Suffering is the precious wealth of life, and life needs suffering!
Suffering is inevitable in life. Plants should understand the pruning of knives and axes frankly, because it will allow them to accumulate the energy of life and bear sweet fruits; Life needs tribulations, and it is precisely because of constant stretching and progress in tribulations that you can be more resilient, become the winner of life, bear the sweet fruit of life and make life shine.
The key is whether you still remember your ideals after every ordeal. Your own vows? Are you still fighting for your ideal? ! !
Classic inspirational three:
Heroes have suffered many hardships since ancient times.
In life, I often regret the losses caused by yesterday's mistakes and mistakes; Sad for the death of relatives and friends, the loss of beloved things, and the blow of failure; Angry at being cheated, cheated and treated unfairly yesterday. All these have caused us to fall into painful torture for a long time. (Team name)
The road in the world is always bumpy than smooth; Life is always more painful than happy. As a philosopher said, "Happiness is only temporary, but pain is eternal." The long road of growth has gradually made me understand that pain can be described as a textbook of life, which is deeply and keenly taught.
Of course you don't live for pain, but you can't live without pain. Pain is not a bad thing. Experiencing pain will not only improve the potential of survival, but also purify and sublimate the soul. Life will be simple and superficial if you haven't tried pain. We should see that every pain is a rare test of life.
Since everyone has to experience pain without exception, there is no need to escape when dealing with pain, let alone stay in sorrow for too long. It is precisely because sadness can only make you depressed, and vigilance can make you grow. In the face of pain, we should be more open-minded and less demanding. We need to understand life calmly, pursue it persistently, and surpass ourselves wisely in the arduous journey.
After repeated injuries and recovery, I feel that my tree of life is getting longer and longer. I deeply realize that there is no absolute happiness and pain in the world, and bumps and tribulations are indispensable washing and tempering in life.
Pain is a noble thing given to us by God, so I have to learn to adapt and understand. It is because of the pain that we can calm down, ask ourselves about our soul and show our unique depth in the real state of thinking; Only pain can make me hold my breath, look at the world around me, and show my unique coldness in a state of pure exploration.
I have regarded the painful experience as a mirror, bravely responded and became mature and strong. With my constant tempering and persistence, pain will definitely become a beautiful bead chain.
Experience pain, bear pain, chew pain, feel pain, and you will gradually taste happiness in pain. There is a saying that "plum blossoms come from bitter cold" and "heroes have suffered many hardships since ancient times".
Real heroes are often scarred stars who rise from pain.