As the college entrance examination approaches, candidates are under great pressure. As the father of Ji Xiaoli, the top liberal arts scholar in Jiangsu Province, Mr. Ji Ping told the author that parents should not only help candidates to adjust their physical and mental state from the aspects of family atmosphere and diet, but also grasp their children's thoughts, thoughts and worries in time, and [b] relieve the pressure [/b] help candidates to put down their burdens and go into battle lightly when necessary. "Care" may not be like all parents. Usually, Mr. Ji's family often urges his daughter Ji Xiaoli. Parents are familiar with the examination and study, and the management is very strict. Near the college entrance examination, Mr. Ji's family didn't ask much about her daughter's study. "Children are already nervous enough, and our parents can't artificially increase the pressure." Taking care of children's diet and daily life is the most important job for parents, but we should not be cautious or even neurotic. Teacher Ji believes that too much or too trivial care may sometimes interfere with children's normal work and rest. Parents had better do more behind-the-scenes work and arrange meals and preparations in advance; Children make schedules according to their own situation. As long as children don't rest too late, parents generally don't have to interfere. Teach children to evaluate themselves correctly. Almost every candidate will be worried. What if I can't improvise well? Ji Ping specially took time to chat with her daughter, and analyzed her strength and problems in previous exams in detail, which helped her get an objective self-evaluation: as long as she played normally, it was not difficult to get into college. Ji Ping also explained to her daughter that worrying is useless and told her that even if something goes wrong for irresistible reasons, her parents will never blame her. Who can guarantee that she will not make mistakes? It can be said that it is the wish of every examinee and parent to guide children to establish a correct outlook on life and go to college. However, parents should help their children understand the purpose of going to college from their own life experiences and feelings, and must not go to extremes. Ji Ping believes that only in this way can the psychological burden of children be fundamentally reduced. Now, even if you graduate from a famous university, you have to make a two-way choice and find a job by yourself. What's more, whether a person can benefit himself, his family and society is not determined by whether he can go to a famous university. Going to college is nothing more than learning skills. How to take the road of life depends entirely on personal efforts.