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As an adult, Han Han became obsessed with being a professional racing driver, saying that he was the main racing driver, and that being a director and writing were "fans". He used such a joke to reduce the resentment between himself and his fans.
Han Han has long since retired from cynicism and turned into a middle-aged greasy man. Jiang, who became famous in his early years, became worse and worse in writing and became an empty and prestigious flower shelf. Is the successful method of "encouraging small plants to help others" ineffective?
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Once a "genius girl"
As a former "genius girl", how annoying is Jiang? According to her mother, she started writing at the age of seven, wrote a collection of essays at the age of nine, and was admitted to Tsinghua University with a gap of 60 points. He became the chairman of China Young Writers Association and joined New Weekly as the deputy editor as soon as he graduated. A proper talented woman.
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When Jiang became an adult, she once expressed the reason why she always encountered when she got along with men and women: because of her low sense of self-identity, she was used to facing the opposite sex with low dust.
In order not to cater to others and maintain the so-called "talented woman", Jiang went to Japan for a year after he became an adult and wrote a self-healing work, but it was also pointed out by many literary circles that it was artificial and lifeless.
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In fact, Jiang is a genius who has been shelved by his mother. Her "road to success" is like a tragedy.
1 year. My mother told Jiang that if she couldn't write a book before she graduated from primary school, she would be taken away by the police, and her father, who was a policeman, actually agreed. As a child, I was a genius who was forced to grow up.
2. Jiang, 12 years old, published "In Development", which wrote many premature remarks. She said that she read her parents' books (is she a woman's friend? ) experience gained.
3. As an adult, Jiang has no aura at all. Some people even questioned that his mother ghosted his childhood, not that he wrote it himself. Jiang's remarks also make him nervous. He is always in a state of catering to others.
Under the strict education of her mother, this former "talented woman" has achieved far more achievements in writing than her peers, but there are serious hidden diseases in emotional intelligence development and even mental health.
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The hidden disease of "encouraging seedlings"
Unlike Han Han, Jiang can face any dissenting voice. Han Han, who dropped out of school, can be domineering even if he is questioned by a 30-year-old office worker.
Jiang's growth path is just the opposite. She is a "good girl" who became famous at a young age. She suppressed her needs and became special in the eyes of others. She has never discussed what kind of life she needs.
Everyone knows the story of "encouraging young plants to encourage others", but mother Jiang's approach is extreme. But today, when the ascending channel is about to close, it is enough for a child of a civilian family to achieve such results under the spur of his parents!
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Jiang also pretended to be a good girl for many years after he became an adult. It was not until she was 27 years old that she jumped out of her comfort zone, went to Tokyo and exiled herself in a city where no one knew her.
Even though her work "One Year in Tokyo" has no literary achievements in the eyes of others, this book is of great significance to her. No matter how successful a person seems to be, he may not live happily as others think.
Chen Kun once described himself that everything happened by accident, including his sudden overnight fame in a TV series. At first, he was scared and refused to play the same handsome guy. Later, he suffered from insomnia and depression.
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Until later, Chen Kun went to Tibet with his relatives and friends, carrying his bags and starting to advocate "the power of walking". By listening to his inner voice, Chen Kun gained the stability of his inner self.
No matter how famous a person is, it is hard for him to be happy if he doesn't know who he lives for and why he lives like this.
The Genius channel has been restricted.
Nothing becomes famous overnight, but everything is tempered into steel —— Jackson Yi's Inspiration
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However, if the "genius girl" Jiang's mother's "encouragement", if she is not reduced by 60 points by Tsinghua like Jiang, she will reach the peak of her life as soon as she graduates, or spray her mother less, it is a different kind of spur.
There is no evidence that she plagiarized, and everyone doesn't know? God, even if she disappears, she is better than us ordinary people, not a little.
It is wishful thinking to force the child to become a genius mother, of course, but this mother is a little scary except for that deceptive remark. Isn't everything she does for the good of the child?
If Jackson Yee's mother hadn't enrolled him in more than a dozen remedial classes since he was a child and forced him to compete and win the championship at the age of five, TFBOY would have nothing to do with him.
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Lang Lang's father forced his son to practice the piano. He once forced his son to jump off a building to apologize because he came home less than an hour late from school.
No genius's road to success is watered with flowers and honey! People who say that Jiang's parents' cultivation methods are improper should first cultivate a successful daughter like Jiang.
As for Xiao Jiang, don't care what others think. Life is your own, and the days are your own. Those famous names are just a means to a happy life. You've been successful enough. Why do you need a pseudonym?