Some boys are afraid that their mistakes will make girls unhappy, so they choose to be silent or just deal with the past. It is easy for girls to think, "Is there something he is not telling me?" Even "magnanimous" said, "I don't blame you for what I am embarrassed to say."
And some boys will come clean and tell their ex-girlfriends about their past. After listening, girls may say, "I remember it so clearly. Are you still obsessed with your ex-girlfriend?" Anyway, I'm not happy for myself.
Therefore, the ex-girlfriend is a "terrible" existence.
Recently, my colleague Xiaoyou is always listless at work, and she can't finish the work assigned by her boss on time. Under my inquiry, Xiaoyou told her troubles.
Xiao You and her boyfriend Xiao W met at a party. At that time, they talked very speculatively. In a few days, they will officially fall in love, which has been three months. According to common sense, you should be in love in three months, so why is Xiaoyou so upset?
It turned out that with the increase of their time together, Xiaoyou gradually discovered the "clue" of Xiao W, who always praised a girl in the circle of friends. At first Xiaoyou didn't feel anything, thinking that she was just a friend or colleague. But by chance, Xiaoyou learned that this girl turned out to be Xiao W's ex-girlfriend! At that time, Xiaoyou lost his mind, thinking all day, and didn't know what to do!
I believe some girls have encountered such problems. Boyfriends and ex-girlfriends still keep in touch, which will really affect their feelings. But we need to look at the problem calmly, instead of making ourselves suspicious. After all, trust is very important in the relationship between two people.
First of all, we can take the initiative to communicate with our boyfriend and find out what he really thinks. Talking frankly about problems is much better than thinking for yourself, and even avoiding many misunderstandings.
If your boyfriend has no ghosts in his heart, he will naturally tell you what he thinks honestly. And if your boyfriend's reaction is very strong, or you think you are making a mountain out of a molehill, you should be on your guard at this time. Maybe in your boyfriend's heart, your ex-girlfriend still has a certain position.
Secondly, you can tell your boyfriend directly that you don't like him doing this. If a man really loves you, he will definitely consider the problem from your point of view and think of you. After all, this is not a harsh condition.
Which is more important, ex-girlfriend or current girlfriend? I think everyone knows. If a man breaks his face with you for his ex-girlfriend, he must not love you, at least not so much!
There is a deep thing in love: in a relationship, trust and communication are very important, which can not only avoid many unnecessary misunderstandings, but also further understand each other's true thoughts. Ex-girlfriends are undeniable, everyone has a past, but we must know how to grasp the sense of proportion and think from each other's point of view, so that this relationship will last for a long time!