Who can control who, if you don't cooperate with each other or self-discipline, no one can control who. We are disciplined by our parents because this is the starting point of our life, but men and women are not. Men control themselves because of women, and women control themselves because of men. This is mutual. Women can't control men for two reasons. First, women don't have the ability and methods to make men consciously cooperate. Second, men have no self-discipline.

First of all, this is not a sign of weakness. So I don't have much affection for women who can't control men. It's normal for this to happen. As a woman, we can see if we can control our boyfriend when we are in love. If he cares about himself, he will care about me. If I don't like it, he will try not to touch it or do it. This is his duty. I can't control my boyfriend smoking and playing games. I can only say that I don't disturb normal things. Ma Yili couldn't control the infidelity of the article for a while, but it can't be said that Ma Yili is weak. Her compromise is strong and cherished, but for the family of two people and the healthy growth of children.

Second, a woman who can't control a man needs to be strong. Since you can't control yourself, you should strengthen yourself, not control yourself, but protect yourself. We should learn to communicate and let each other know that we need to control ourselves. We don't need to take care of others ourselves. Only by taking care of yourself and starting from yourself can the other party realize their mistakes.

Therefore, it is not necessary to put men's affairs on women. It is not easy for us to manage ourselves. If we can have extra energy to manage them, so be it. It's really that men don't have enough consciousness and can't control it.