Thoughts after reading Fu Lei's Family Letters (10 articles)
Have you read "Fu Lei's Family Letters"? In fact, this book not only lets people know Fu Lei's thoughts, but also helps people today. Many parents educate their children. The following are my thoughts after reading the Fu Lei family books. I hope they can be provided for your reference.
Reflections after reading Fu Lei’s Family Letter 1
"Fu Lei’s Family Letter" is a family letter written by Mr. Fu Lei, a Chinese translator, to his son. These family letters embody Mr. Fu Lei’s deep love for the motherland and his son. .
Regarding the purpose of writing these family letters, Mr. Fu Lei once said this in a letter to his son Fu Cong: "Writing a long letter to you is not empty talk, not inexplicable, but meaningful. There are several functions. First, I really regard you as an opponent to discuss art and music; second, I really want to stimulate some young people's feelings in you, so that I, as a father, can get some fresh nourishment. It can also be spread to other young people indirectly; third, through communication, you will be trained - not only in writing, but especially in your thoughts; fourth, I want to be a wake-up call and make noodles for you at all times and everywhere. "A faithful mirror," no matter in terms of life, in terms of life details, in terms of artistic accomplishment, or in terms of performance posture. "The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, and be able to treat it with a serious attitude. All in all, to be an "artist with moral integrity and outstanding personality."
In the family letters, Mr. Fu Lei wrote that when his son was depressed, he comforted him on how to face emotional trauma and learn to deal with it calmly, which was like the gentle breeze and gentle rain comforting him; When he achieved great success and was surrounded by flowers and applause, he was inspired to remain humble, not afraid of loneliness, and have the courage to climb to the highest level of art. This story was full of joy and passion. The main theme that runs through these two letters is that his son should be a strong person. No matter what ups and downs, conflicts and loneliness he encounters, he must maintain his unremitting pursuit of art and his innocence in life. Throughout the family letters, the language is approachable, simple and natural. It is a father's earnest instruction to his son, guidance and philosophical enlightenment for his life direction, and full of the affection of a loving father.
In a letter at home, Mr. Fu Lei once said to his son: "As long as you can be strong, I will be relieved for the rest of my life!" This sentence emphasizes the importance of strength in life. In "Fu Lei's Family Letter", strength has two aspects: one is "not afraid of failure, not afraid of setbacks, not afraid of blows - whether it is personnel, life, technology, learning - blows ", "Don't be afraid even if you are alone", and "dare to face reality and mistakes, use rational analysis, and thoroughly understand, so that you will not be eroded by memories"; "Emotional trauma should be treated as the ashes of the soul." The second is to "not get carried away by victory" and always maintain "humility towards art". The combination of these two aspects means "don't be arrogant when you win, and don't be discouraged when you lose." As mentioned in the book at home, "the mind is quite balanced and will not get hurt", "the highs are not excessive because you are nervous, and the lows are not excessive because you are decadent"; do not be afraid of contradictions and believe that "contradictions are proof of vigorous vitality", these are also This principle.
But the state of "strongness" can be said to lie in maintaining an "innocent heart." "A child does not know loneliness. When a child is lonely, he will create a world and create many spiritual friends!" A child who can maintain the purity of his soul and be unafraid of loneliness is the most valuable and indestructible strength of human nature.
From this chapter on his painstaking efforts to educate his children, I saw Mr. Fu Lei’s good intentions in hoping that his children would become successful. I also got many of the enlightenments mentioned above, learned a lot of principles of life, and improved my own cultivation. Reflections after reading Fu Lei's Family Letter 2
"Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a very special book. It is not like most books on the market. "Fu Lei's Family Letter" contains a father's thoughts on educating his children. Language, in general, is a letter that constructs his sincere teachings to his children, which reflects his painstaking efforts as a father towards his son.
In "Fu Lei's Family Letter", Fu Lei did not use gorgeous language to convey his life experience or his personal summary. He uses the most unpretentious language and a sincere heart to communicate spiritually with his son.
Every father is very attentive to educating his children, and Fu Lei is even more dedicated to educating his sons in all aspects of music, art, philosophy, history, literature and even health. From this, we can understand Fu Lei attaches great importance to children's education, and also sees the friendly relationship between Fu Lei and his son. Reflections after reading Fu Lei’s Family Letters Chapter 3
This summer vacation, I read "Fu Lei’s Family Letters" recommended in the textbook, and I was deeply moved after reading it.
"Fu Lei's Family Letters" contains thirty-two family letters in the first half of this book. In these thirty-two family letters, the problems mentioned are large and small; innovation and breakthrough; Tao; keep an eye on your wallet and make your speech full of charm... There are macro guidance and painstaking and meticulous care, all of which make us feel that Fu Lei and his wife care about these two children: Fu Cong - piano master, Fu Min - a special English teacher who has been trained with painstaking efforts and dedication.
In his letter to Bo Cong, Mr. Bo Lei not only talked about art study, but also about life, love, life, and self-cultivation. Even if his son made a typo, his father would "seriously take it seriously." Point out and patiently analyze and correct. It is this method, rather than other methods (such as essays, translations), that allows us to directly and clearly feel the meticulous, rigorous and serious attitude and style of Mr. Fu Lei, a literary critic and literary translator, as a person and as a scholar. .
However, Fu Cong drew rich spiritual nourishment from these letters of his father during his life in a foreign country. Give him guidance, encouragement and encouragement from time to time. Give him the courage and strength to overcome all kinds of demonic obstacles. Embark on your own right path of growth. Fu Cong's spirit of loving and trusting the motherland cannot be separated from Mr. Fu Lei's earnest education tens of thousands of miles away. As the saying goes, ‘One father is worth a hundred teachers’!
Nowadays, people know that there are only two important things in a person's life, namely being a person and doing things. Therefore, their family education is inevitable. The long-lasting love between father and son is spoken in the world. Reflections after reading Fu Lei’s letters Chapter 4
Soviet educator Suhomlinsky once said: “If we can express the entire essence of family education in a few words, it is to make our children become determined people. , can strictly demand themselves." From ancient times to the present, Meng's mother moved three times, and Lin Boqu named his son... Celebrities of all ages have gone all out to practice the truth contained in this famous saying.
However, education is a complicated thing: it is a great profession and an arduous task. Any education method will cause difficulties and conflicts, and it is difficult to make children become a good person in all aspects. Really good people. However, among the thousands of people who have tried their best for education, Fu Lei did it. A "Fu Lei Family Letter" made him a role model in everyone's life.
The one who sees a lot is knowledgeable, the one who hears a lot is wise; the one who refuses advice is blocked, and the one who focuses on himself is lonely. Real education lies in improving self-cultivation.
Confucius had very high requirements for children's artistic accomplishment. The saying "If you don't learn poetry, you can't speak; if you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand" has become an important philosophy; Sima Guang paid attention to children's moral cultivation. , paid great attention to educating children to avoid extravagance and be prudent in spending. His son Sima Kang understood the importance of frugality from an early age and practiced simplicity and self-discipline; Madame Curie was good at seizing the time to educate her children early and cultivate their children's practical ability. It not only enhances the child's self-confidence, but also tempers his character. Those who plant trees must cultivate their roots, and those who plant virtue must cultivate their hearts. Excellent people must have a cultivated mind.
Zhuangzi said: If you are an emperor, you may not be noble; if you are a poor man, you may not be humble. The difference between high and low lies in the good and bad conduct. Fu Lei discovered the importance of self-cultivation and achieved great success in education.
If you move people with words, their feelings will not be deep; if you move people with actions, they will respond quickly. True education lies in leading by example.
Fan Zhongyan was frugal and simple. When his son got married, he neither bought expensive or luxurious items nor held a grand wedding, thus maintaining his family tradition; after the fall of Peking, the pseudo "Xinminhui" invited Li Kuchan "Coming out of the mountain", Li Kuchan was unmoved and refused sternly, setting the best example for his children; Liang Qichao was an upright man and devoted himself to cultivating the children's patriotic enthusiasm. Under his words and deeds, the children developed very well. Liang Qichao finally used his actions to achieve great results for all nine of his children. Education is not only about spreading truth to children, but also requires those who spread the truth to be consistent in their words and deeds. Great ideas can only become great achievements if they are put into action.
Fu Lei wrote in the letter: "The most powerful argument in the world is practical action, and the most effective education is setting an example." Reality is this shore, ideal is the other shore, separated by a rushing river, Action is the bridge across the river.
Only by studying well can you become a teacher, by being upright and a role model, by improving your self-cultivation can you become your children's teacher, and by setting an example can you become your children's role model. Fu Lei achieved success precisely because he achieved these two points. His cultivation determines the direction of his child's life, and his actions reflect the value of his child's life. It is precisely because of this that he can make his child a successful person in his mind.
"Fu Lei's Family Letter" embodies not only the philosophy of education, but also the philosophy of everyone's life. Reflections after reading Fu Lei’s letters Chapter 5
Mother’s love is great. Indeed, taking good care of her for ten months is the only love in the world that is dedicated to you. Father’s love is very small, not as obvious as mother’s love, but quietly Silently, it seeps into your life bit by bit. "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is more about the father Fu Lei's silent love for his two sons.
On the evening of August 16, 1954, Fu Lei wrote a letter home to his son Fu Cong, mentioning Fu Cong’s problems in interpersonal relationships: First, when he went to someone else’s house, he took off his coat; But she kept a silk scarf; secondly, she often put her hands in her coat pockets or trouser pockets. When taking the stage to salute or take a curtain call, your facial expression should be gentle and don't be too serious as in the past. In fact, if this passage is put in real life, for me and many people, it is really long-winded and makes people extremely impatient. Because these "little things" happen over and over again and our parents keep talking about them, we will naturally feel bored and helpless.
No matter in terms of clothing, habits, or politeness and etiquette, in our opinion, this is really an ordinary "little thing", but his father Fu Lei observed it very carefully. Every move of his son Fu Cong, Every habit, every expression is always remembered so clearly, it is father's love! If it weren't for this silent father's love, what better reason could there be to explain Fu Lei's affectionate and connotative instructions to Fu Cong?
After reading Ms. Yang Jiang’s article about Fu Lei, we will know that Fu Lei was extremely strict and extremely strict with Fu Cong when he was a child. In such a native family, Fu Cong is really miserable. Under the strict education of his father Fu Lei, Fu Cong practiced piano assiduously, day after day. It is not difficult to find that when Fu Cong grew up and went abroad for further studies, Fu Lei's attitude and tone towards the grown-up Fu Cong and the childhood Fu Cong changed completely. Why is this?
I think Fu Lei actually wants to pave a smoother path for Fu Cong's future. When Fu Lei grows up and goes abroad for further study, he will help Fu Cong to achieve so-called success as a friend. The idea of ????hoping for his son to become a dragon is so urgent. Fu Lei's harshness towards Fu Cong can be said to have "no father-son affection", but it is also a kind of father's love, a silent alternative kind of father's love, a kind of unique and unique father's love. Fatherly love leads Fu Cong to success.
I don’t like this kind of fatherly love. If Fu Lei treats Fu Cong, this kind of unique fatherly love, it would never be successful today. Because not every child can accept this kind of "devil-style" education. Due to the rapid development of the times, education needs to keep pace with the times and remain unchanged. Stubborn education is doomed to fail.
However, what "Fu Lei's Family Letter" tells me is that father's love is silent. In real life, my relationship with my father was somewhat awkward. The several big fights were not as easy to reconcile as my mother and I "quarreled" with each other almost every two or three days. Looking back, I never said words like "I was wrong" or "I shouldn't", but my father always silently picked up the naughty things I did. He is busy at work and works overtime several times a week. His love for me lies more in asking, "Do you still have enough money?" "Remember to tell me if you don't have enough money?" I know that my father does not only care about work, family, wife and children, but because besides this home, there are many other homes that need to be protected, to serve the people, and to better guarantee the beauty and tranquility of this city. Father's love is really silent, so silent that you can hardly notice it, but it seeps into your heart bit by bit.
A mother’s love is like the sea, and a father’s love is like a mountain. Mother's love is vigorous, but father's love is silent, but like a towering mountain. Thoughts after reading Fu Lei’s letters from home Chapter 6
Letters from home refer to letters that a person in a distant place exchanges with his family members. The letters contain deep family affection. Fu Lei is a Chinese translator and writer. "Fu Lei Family Letters" is excerpted from the letters home from Fu Lei and his wife to their children. The letters were written from 1954 to 1966.
This is a good read and a family letter full of fatherly love. Fu Lei and his wife are role models for Chinese parents. They worked hard to raise their two children, Fu Cong and Fu Min, and taught them to be human first and then start a family. There is a passage in the article that is a letter from Fu Lei encouraging Fu Cong when he was upset, telling him not to be upset and to learn to control his emotions. The letter said: "The sun is too strong and will scorch the grain; the rain is too strong. , will also drown the crops." Fu Lei also said to Fu Cong in the letter: "Writing a long letter to you is not just for you. It is not inexplicable, but it has several functions." The earnest teachings of his father and the deep affection revealed between the lines have given strong inspiration to parents and children all over the world.
"Fu Lei's Family Letter" gave me a lot of inspiration. I thought that many parents neglect their emotions with their children and encourage them. They have raised children for many years because they are eager for their children to grow up, but they have never truly enjoyed the joy of being parents. Some parents blindly learn from Fu Lei's educational method - "filial sons emerge from under the hammer", but can they achieve good results by just using the word "beat"? So I think parents should give us appropriate pressure, establish friendship with us, and not leave a shadow on our childhood. As children, we must also understand why and for whom our parents work so hard, and we should not feel that our parents are having trouble with you, because everything our parents do is for the benefit of their children. In my opinion, this is what "Fu Lei's Family Letter" really tells us. Chapter 7: Thoughts after reading Fu Lei's Family Letters
Reading "Fu Lei's Family Letters" makes me sincerely appreciate every detail of Fu Lei's family. From their career to their daily household chores, everything is well managed, especially in the family. His well-intentioned efforts in educating his children are an example for parents all over the world to follow.
After reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter", it reminds me of the "Dear Andre" I read with my children during the summer vacation. One is full of "father's love" and the other is full of "mother's love". Although they The ways of love are slightly different, but they all communicate with children in a trusting way, communicating with each other, so that children can study hard and pursue the life they want. It is so real. Subtly let the children enter the hearts of their parents and understand them. It also allows parents to stand from their children's perspective and understand their children, and eventually they become each other's most intimate friends.
Children are our future, for a better future.
I want to learn more from these three scholars, complain less, and understand more, so that my children can grow up happily. Teaching by example is more important than words. It is the hope of every parent to hope that their children will become successful and their daughters will become phoenixes. Reflections after reading Fu Lei’s Family Letter Chapter 8
“The war rages for three months, and letters from home are worth ten thousand dollars.” Letters are a way to maintain relationships between relatives who are thousands of miles apart. This is why “Fu Lei’s Family Letter” can have such a great impact. , different from ordinary family letters.
"Fu Lei Family Letters" are letters from home and abroad written by Fu Lei and his wife to their sons Fu Cong and Fu Min. Most of them were written to his eldest son Fu Cong, who went abroad and eventually became a famous pianist. letter. There are thousands of words, every word is surging, and readers are all moved by Fu Lei's spirit. The letter contains repentance for being too strict in raising his son in the past, praise and encouragement for his son's progress, guidance and discussion on music and art, views and opinions on party and country construction and movements, and criticism of his son's life. Ask and care, "The sentiment that runs through all family letters is that the son should know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, be able to treat everything with a serious attitude, and be an 'artist with both morals and art, and outstanding personality.'" Read a family letter Recording is to see Fu Lei's "warm and quiet, profound and simple, gentle and proud, subtle and straightforward" Bing Xin world. We not only understand the reason why Fu Lei can become a famous translator, but also learn from it. In middle school, you learn the true meaning of life on how to raise children to become talents.
Fu Cong went to study abroad, and his contact with his father naturally relied on letters, so the love between father and son was clearly revealed in a letter from the family. They discussed art together, studied the connotation of music, and exchanged views on things through letters. Although there was no inquiring about the warmth of the father-son correspondence, the tacit understanding between them was irreplaceable. Fu Lei has his own opinions on art, especially music.
After reading this "Fu Lei Family Letter" carefully, I feel that it gives people a good atmosphere and room for aftertaste, just like an opera. "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is about a father's persuasive guidance. It is very friendly to read. It is full of deep affection for his son and has the unique and irresistible majesty of a father. Reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter", one feels a pure, upright, sincere and noble soul. The relationship between father and son is sublimated by the sublimity of art and becomes an inexhaustible nourishment for the human spirit.
Fu Lei's family was ransacked, and only a few of Fu Cong's letters remained. Therefore, most of the article is letters written by Fu Lei to Fu Cong, hence the name "Fu Lei's Family Letters". "Fu Lei Family Letters" is not only a letter, but also a platform for Fu Lei and Fu Cong to exchange art. Their profound artistic skills can be seen everywhere. In each piece of fresh writing, we can also feel the deep affection between father and son, which remains undiminished even though they are thousands of miles apart. The most common content in family books is about music. The father and son often talk freely about their opinions on music, their understanding of musical works, and their comments on artists in their letters at home. Fu Cong won third place in the 5th Chopin Piano Competition. He is a famous pianist and has been praised by well-known musicians at home and abroad. These achievements are inseparable from his strict father.
Fu Lei strictly disciplined Fu Cong when he was a child. It was the 1940s, and the isolated city of Shanghai was surrounded by Japanese invaders. Even the atmosphere was filled with a sinful and poisonous atmosphere. Mr. Fu Lei did not let his children play on the streets. He kept his children at home to cultivate his music and culture. He also paid great attention to his children's behavior and living habits. He required his children to live frugally and study seriously, and supervised Fu Cong's continuous piano practice for several hours every day. But Fu Lei is not a rigid education. One time, Fu Cong was practicing the piano when he suddenly got inspiration and started playing to his own tune. My father noticed something was wrong and walked downstairs. Fu Cong was so frightened that he hurried back to the score. But this time, Fu Lei not only did not blame Fu Cong, but instead asked him to play the music he composed. The father and son studied it together and named the music "Spring". When Fu Cong grew up, he went abroad to study and perform, and Fu Lei's letters from home always accompanied him. When Fu Cong was working hard outside, letters from home were his only comfort.
Fu Lei’s hard work on his children is all integrated into a letter from home. Fu Cong drew faith and spirit from these letters of his father. It makes him feel as if his parents are still by his side to teach, encourage and spur him in his overseas situation, giving him more courage and strength to overcome all kinds of difficulties and obstacles and follow his own right path. He refused invitations from countries hostile to his motherland and never did words or deeds that were detrimental to the dignity of his motherland. This spirit of loving the motherland is inseparable from the ardent patriotism education Fu Lei gave him thousands of miles away. Fu Cong's artistic achievements are inseparable from the painstaking teachings of his father Fu Lei. Fu Lei has passed away, but his family letters remain. The love and spirit Fu Lei’s family letters bring to us will forever affect the next generation.
I am really grateful that there were no mobile phones and computers in that era, and I am really grateful for the postman at that time. In modern family education, "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a book full of heavy parental love. Reflections after reading Fu Lei's Family Letters Chapter 9
"Fu Lei's Family Letters" is an excerpt of the family letters written by the Chinese literary and art translator Fu Lei and his wife to their children Fu Cong and Fu Min from 1954 to 1966. The book is an excellent book Readings for young people's ideological cultivation are a classic model of quality education and a famous article for educating children full of fatherly love.
The two children they trained with painstaking efforts and painstaking efforts, Fu Cong is a famous piano master, and Fu Min is an English special education teacher. They are a successful embodiment of the educational idea of ??teaching students in accordance with their aptitude!
When we were in junior high school, a teacher recommended this book to us, but we didn’t pay much attention to it at the time. During this winter vacation, I happened to borrow this book from the library and read it through the winter vacation. Fu Lei communicates with his children through letters. In a letter, Fu Lei cares about everything from his career, life and art to food, clothing and money. Parents can learn from this to educate their children. Methods, art students, especially piano students, can learn ways to improve their skills. It can be seen from the words in the family letter that Fu Lei is a person who is very strict with himself. In some aspects, he is even mean to himself. Fu Lei asked his son to establish three principles: do not say anything that is sorry for the motherland, and never do anything that is sorry for the motherland. Despite his nationality, his spirit of loving and educating his children is actually touching.
Fu Lei’s family letters allow us to understand past history, open a window, and well preserve the memory of that era for us. It is precisely because of its existence that the excellent morality of the Chinese nation is clearly explained. , it is not only Fu Lei’s education for children, but also the principles for our conduct. In the process of reading, we can feel the sincere teachings of parents in the family letters and the sincere communication between children and parents. Fu Lei's family letters not only teach people how to behave, but are also filled with deep family affection. The family affection revealed between the lines is equally touching. During his life wandering in a foreign country, Fu Cong drew a lot of rich spiritual nourishment from his father's letters. His father always gave him guidance, encouragement and encouragement, giving him the courage and strength to overcome all kinds of obstacles and embark on his own right path of growth. I think Fu Cong’s spirit of loving and trusting the motherland cannot be separated from Fu Leizi’s earnest education from thousands of miles away.
Nowadays, many people have learned to hide themselves. You have never understood me, and I don’t need to explain. How many people can express their emotions in detail like in Fu Lei’s family letter? In short, after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter", I think it is a good book for educating children, and it should also be a good book for children to understand their parents! Reflections after reading Fu Lei’s letters Chapter 10
Everyone has experienced the kindness and teachings of their parents. After I read "Fu Lei's Family Letter". I am deeply moved by Mr. Fu Lei’s understanding of life and his care for his children. The letters from home range from career to life and art. It’s as small as spending money on food and clothing. No matter the details. No less than caring. Parents can learn from this how to educate their children. Those who study art, especially those who study piano, can learn ways to improve their technical memory. Friends who are familiar with the early days of liberation can also get some understanding from the description of Fu Lei, the person involved. What impressed me most about this book was the strengthening of personal cultivation.
Some people think that letters are the most genuine, natural and authentic writing. yes. Because all the words written down are the immediate thoughts in my heart. Wherever the thoughts go, the words follow. This is especially true when writing letters to loved ones. And he dared to analyze himself. I want to read "Fu Lei's Family Letter". What we read should be Fu Lei himself. Fu Lei also teaches children in accordance with their aptitude. On the education of Fu Cong’s music. Originally the emphasis was on technique. Then repeatedly asked him to truly understand the work itself. This means thinking about everything from the perspective of why. So as to see the essence of things. Fu Lei's own ideological experience in educating his children is also constantly improving. They are a couple. Two children that I have worked hard to raise throughout my life. All very accomplished. Instructions from parents in letters home. Genuine communication between children and parents. Family affection overflows between the lines. It gave me a profound inspiration.
After reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter". I learned a lot. I understand my parents' love for this book better. Not just an educational book. It is also a book that can bring parents and children closer. Let children know their parents better.
Let parents know their children better