The allusion of "a gentleman has no wife" comes from Chapter 52 of Romance of the Three Kingdoms. Zhuge Liang told Lu Su and Zhao Zilong to take Guiyang.

Zhao Yun said, "A gentleman only suffers from fame and fortune. Why not marry?" Zhao Yun means that a man should worry about his career, not his wife and family.

Now spoken English has become "a good man is afraid of not finding a wife?" Emphasize that men should be ambitious and not delay the overall situation because they are immersed in love.

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Insinuate why a gentleman has no wife.

Zhao Yunling led three thousand troops to attack Guiyang, captured the flag, and captured Chen Ying, the magistrate of Guiyang. Zhao Fan had to surrender. Zhao Fan feted Zhao Yun, became brothers with Zhao Yun, and proposed to remarry his widowed sister-in-law Fan Shi to Zhao Yun. Zhao Yun was very angry after hearing this. He thought that Zhao Fanhang was neither fish nor fowl, and reprimanded Zhao Fan. Zhao Fan had ulterior motives and motioned for him to kill Zhao Yun. Zhao Yun found out, punched Zhao Fan and got on the horse and went out of the city.

Later, Zhao Fan and Chen Yingbaolong negotiated a fake surrender and Zhao Yun saw through it. Instead, he played along, beheaded Chen Yingbaolong and captured Zhao Fan alive, thus completely dividing Guiyang into the territory of Liu Beijun.

Afterwards, Liu Bei and Zhuge Liang came to Guiyang, and Zhao Yun described the incident one by one.

Zhuge Liang asked Zhao Yun why he didn't marry Fan Shi. Zhao Yun replied, "Since Zhao Fan is his brother, if he marries his sister-in-law, he will be reviled." His wife remarried, which made it a big festival, secondly; Zhao Fanchu surrendered, his heart is unpredictable. The master newly appointed Jianghan, but the pillow mat is not safe. How dare Yunan ruin the master's event with a woman? There are many women in the world, but I'm afraid my reputation will not stand. Why not marry? "