is selected from Mozi's Universal Love. Everyone helps each other and seeks mutual benefits. Equality does not distinguish between relatives and friends, high and low, rich and poor, and loves everyone equally.

Second, if you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand

Interpretation from the sixteenth chapter of The Analects of Confucius and Ji's Chapter: Learning etiquette is detailed and clear, but virtue is firm, so you can stand.

Third, rule the people with peace of mind, and be good at courtesy.

It comes from the chapter of filial piety and broad thoroughfare. Confucius said: "There is no better way to stabilize the country and govern the people than to use courtesy. The so-called ceremony is just respect! "

Fourth, if you are rude, you must be self-satisfied and

OK: do it; Self-awareness: It's your turn. If you do too many rude things, you will inevitably hurt yourself.

5. The elders give it to me, and those who are less mean dare not quit

from Book of Rites Quli Shang. Older people can't drink until they have finished their glasses. The elders give each other, but the young and the humble cannot refuse.

Six, the luxury of the country is to show frugality, and the frugality of the country is to show courtesy

from The Book of Rites under the Tan Bow. Chinese people are extravagant, so they are taught by thrift; Chinese people are frugal, so they are taught manners.

7. People who love others always love them, and those who respect others always respect them.

This statement emphasizes the importance of respecting others. If a person can understand and respect others well when interacting with others, then he will certainly get a hundred times of understanding and respect from others.

VIII. Morality, benevolence and righteousness, no indecent assault; Teach the right lesson, and be unprepared for indecent assault

Morality, benevolence and righteousness can't be achieved without courtesy. Using teaching and discipline to correct folk customs, if there is no ceremony, it is incomplete.

9. It's better to raise a little than to offer a rich sacrifice.

See "Long Gang Qian Biao" by Ouyang Xiu in the Song Dynasty. Sacrifice: Sacrifice. Support: support, these two sentences are to the effect that it is better to give a thinner support before death than to offer a rich sacrifice after death.

1. Being respectful and rude is tiring, being cautious and rude is embarrassing, being brave and rude is chaotic, and being straightforward and rude is twisted.

Confucius said, "It is futile to be respectful without courtesy; Just being cautious and not being guided by courtesy will make you cringe and stiff; Just being brave and not guided by courtesy will lead to chaos; Just being straightforward and not guided by courtesy will be urgent. "