Mothers without milk desperately eat and drink to supplement their bodies, but their bodies are out of shape or without milk; For the health of lactating babies, many things you want to eat can only be given up desperately, just like ascetic practice; The baby often wakes up to drink milk and basically doesn't sleep well during lactation; The nipple is sucked by the baby, bleeding, scabbing, and then sucked. This kind of pain continues all the time ... So there are not always happy moments for mother and child during lactation, let alone enjoying the happiness during lactation. Every time the baby opens his mouth, he will subconsciously fear.
I wrote in an article before that if the pain of uterine contraction is 10, what is the increase level of milk? The answer given is 12. Why is it higher than the series of uterine contraction pain? Because you can get painless injections during contractions, there is really no way to increase milk, and sometimes even the best breast nurses can't do anything about it.
Maybe many mothers don't cry when they give birth, but they often collapse because of the rising milk. Some mothers survived the milk increase, but collapsed during weaning. Often some mothers go up for half a month before returning to milk. At this time, I feel that life is not as good as death. But why should mothers breastfeed their children? Because this is what every lactating mother wants to give her baby the best, everything becomes insignificant in front of it.
In fact, some psychologists have analyzed: "There has never been such a thing as a baby." It means that when you see the baby, you must also see the mother who takes care of the baby.
Many people want to see perfection, but many people ignore the pain suffered by their mothers behind their backs, think it's nothing, and can't understand the hard work of nursing mothers. However, many mothers have given their all for breastfeeding.
Family members know more about breastfeeding and help lactating mothers when they need help, so that they can last longer. If strangers give nursing mothers more understanding, they will be more comfortable when breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is not easy and the obstacles are long. I hope more people can understand and tolerate wet nurses, love, understand and care more, and blame and ridicule less.