Life is always accompanied by peaks and valleys, which is the way of nature. However, this society is very realistic and people are more powerful. When you are prosperous, there is no shortage of flatterers, and when you are depressed, there is no shortage of people who laugh at you.

There is a saying that 30 years in the East and 30 years in the West. The beauty of life lies in the uncertainty of the future. People are not afraid of being looked down upon by others, but they are afraid of their own downfall. The more the trough, the more despised by others, the more cold-eyed and sarcastic. If a person can cultivate these three potentials diligently, his future will be bright and he will no longer be afraid of being looked down upon by others.

First, be the first.

It is human nature that the first person who eats crabs is not only risky, but also misunderstood and laughed at by others. But the same opportunity is also the biggest. The development of society is inseparable from innovation, and the leap of life is inseparable from striving for the first place. It doesn't matter if you fall into a trough because of this. There is no winning game in life, but as long as you win once, it may be a success that mediocre people can't achieve all their lives.

Being the first is a challenge, which requires us to have more courage than ordinary people. The so-called people have no me, and people have my new. The more unexpected things others dare not do, the more valuable they are to achieve. Don't be afraid of failure, let alone live in the eyes of others. A dream without being laughed at is not a dream. As long as we have a strong heart and the courage to challenge, the hazy present can't hide the light of our future.

Second, focus without interference

Many people live a miserable life, not because their talents are dull, nor because they can't cultivate corresponding abilities. But because of trivial interference in life, dreams have been put on hold. There are many temptations in this society, and it is easy for us to fall into the comfort zone of life. At the same time, for our ideals and choices, relatives and friends around us will always bring a lot of interference, or express opposition and incomprehension, or even directly ridicule.

One should not live for others. What you want and what you want to achieve are just your subjective wishes. Never expect others to feel the same way. In this case, we should be firm in our choice and abandon all interference. Whether it is the temptation in life or the different voices of people around you, we should use our own strength to isolate and shield, and then all the way towards our goals, with no distractions.

Always remember one sentence, no one can really be responsible for your future except yourself. This road may be difficult, but it is my choice after all. No matter how it ends, it is a valuable asset in my life.

Third, perseverance in repeated defeats and wars.

There has never been absolute success in the world, even if the right time, the right place and all of them are occupied, we can't keep the word impermanence of life. And when we choose a difficult road, the probability of success will be reduced accordingly. However, life is also a trial and error process. Every trial and error does not mean failure. In a sense, it is an accumulation of experience. The key is whether we have a strong ability to resist setbacks.

Zeng Guofan once wrote to the imperial court: I have repeatedly lost and fought. This is a spirit that never gives up. Even if you fail 10 thousand times, you can't erase your desire for success, and even failure inspires your fighting spirit. Countless facts have proved that when a person has the perseverance of repeated defeats and battles, even if it is deep, it will eventually fight back. For them, success can only be late, but they will never be absent.