One: Don’t believe those who always report someone and so and so to criticize you. Two: I don’t believe in people who praise and praise you endlessly as soon as they see you. Three: Don’t hate those who have openly argued with you or criticized you. Four: Never arrange for someone to collect what others say about you behind your back. Five: Never use your rights in public to gather some people to talk about what others say about you. That is tantamount to demolishing yourself. 6: Don’t answer any attacks on your life, only discuss meaningful things. Seven: Do not defend yourself (under normal circumstances), but you can clarify some views, some choices, and some rights and wrongs. 8: It doesn’t matter if you are confused for a moment or take the blame for a moment, you are still you, and he is still him. A person who cannot bear the blame can only be a weak person. Nine: Don’t reject people casually, don’t agree to people casually, don’t make people appetizing, and don’t show off your strength. Ten: Not eager to express yourself, nor eager to correct others. Just look, listen, and ponder. 11: Don’t talk about others behind their backs. 12: Remember, interpersonal relationships are always two-way, how you treat others, how they treat you. Thirteen: Never accept incitement or provocation. Fourteen: When getting along with others, never consider what you can get out of them. 15: Never think that anyone who comes into contact with you is stupider, stupider, or easier to fool than you.