Reading can be regarded as the most important thing for children in today's society, but the children themselves do not think so, because children's cognitive abilities are limited and their vision can only be limited to the present. Very few children can see through the importance of reading to themselves, while the vast majority of children think that reading has no real use.
Especially in today's society, the rise of "theory that reading is useless" has caused more children to have self-doubt, "Why should I study?" "What is the use of reading?" Questions abound. It arises in the child's heart, what should we as parents do at this time?
Many parents don’t know what to do when it comes to their children’s doubts. Some parents will tell their children that reading is very important; some parents will say that knowledge changes destiny, but these seem to be It’s really not that attractive, and it’s easy for children to give up reading. So what should we, as parents, do when faced with children’s doubts about reading and their unwillingness to read?
Professor Li Meijin has many unique insights into children’s education. Since Professor Li Meijin has been studying criminal psychology before doing parenting education, Professor Li Meijin is very able to grasp the psychology of children and find psychological solutions. As a way to deal with children's problems, Professor Li Meijin found that if a child doesn't want to study, taking him around these three places is far more effective than beating, scolding, and preaching.
The train station is a place with a large flow of people among all means of transportation. After all, in our country, whether we are going home for the New Year or going out to work, taking the train is a very cost-effective choice. Here we often I saw all kinds of people, but most of them were people with low incomes. Because of the price of trains, these people crowded together in crowded carriages.
The dusty appearance of people in the train can play an educational role for children. Of course, this does not mean that people who take trains are bad, but if we change through reading If you have a certain destiny, you don’t need to choose such a tiring way to go home to celebrate the New Year in order to save hundreds of dollars.
Through such observation, children can truly understand that reading can bring great convenience to life, and at the same time, it can also give them more choices when facing problems in the future.
Compared with trains, the high-speed rail is much better in terms of environment and speed. People's travel here will be more relaxed, and people on the high-speed rail are also very clean and tidy in their clothes. They rarely There are some bad behaviors, and there are still many people who work on the high-speed rail, because for them, time is money.
The high income brought by studying can make it more convenient for us to travel. If traveling by train is tiring, then traveling by high-speed rail is definitely a kind of enjoyment. You know, the speed of normal high-speed rail is twice as fast as that of train?
If there is a way that is faster and more comfortable than high-speed rail, it must be an airplane. However, according to surveys, nearly 1 billion people have never taken an airplane. This is such a huge data. You must know that airplanes are not only the most popular means of travel nowadays. The fastest means of transportation, the services on it are very comprehensive, but even on the plane, there are three, six or nine classes, including economy class, first class, business class and so on.
The more expensive the price, the better the service you will enjoy. This is society. When the children have visited these three places, parents can ask their children what kind of person they want to be in the future. And tell them how much effort it takes to become such a person, and let your children know that only if you work hard, you will have more choices in the future.
Although there are three hundred and sixty professions, one can be number one in each profession, but reading and learning are definitely needed in every industry. As the saying goes, live and learn, and reading really does not help us enough. underestimate.
You must know that the benefits of reading to children are permanent improvements. Although reading may not necessarily allow children to make a lot of money, it can definitely improve their vision and outlook; although reading cannot change a person's appearance , but it can change a person's temperament; although reading may not necessarily make you have a higher IQ, it can make your life better; reading may not necessarily make people successful, but it can make you better at facing problems. When problems arise, there are more choices and solutions!
If you want your children to read, the first and most important thing is to read good books and choose books suitable for your children according to their physical and mental development. Only in this way can your children have a desire to read and cultivate good reading habits.
Just as a professor from Stanford University once said: Paying attention to the early companionship and education of children is the most cost-effective investment in a parent's life! Have you made this investment?
Behind outstanding children there must be a far-sighted parent. Don’t be fooled by the current comfortable life and ignore the needs of the child’s future development. Let the child study from an early age and let the child stand on the shoulders of giants. Thinking about problems will make it easier for children to succeed in the future.