The most powerful principle of development and growth lies in human choice. ——[English] Eliot's "Daniel Dironda"

The difficulty in life lies in choice. ——[Ireland] Moore's "Broken Branch"

How a person thinks is what kind of person he is; what kind of choice a person makes is what kind of person he is. ——[U.S.] Emerson's "Essays, Volume 1"

Not making any choice in the face of choice is a choice in itself. ——American proverb

Bees always fly around good flowers. ——Russian proverb

The eyes cannot see twice and the ears cannot hear twice. ——"Xunzi Encouraging Learning"

I let others mutter, but I do what I think is beneficial. I surveyed my field and identified my goals. ——[Germany] Marx

Although the road of life is long, there are often only a few critical steps, especially when you are young. ——Liu Qing

Don’t make a decision in a hurry, because after a night of careful consideration, you will emerge with better wisdom. ——[Russian] Pushkin

Between two bad apples, there is no choice. ——[English] Shakespeare's "The Taming of the Shrew" Life is not perfect, if you find something wrong. If you start over again, if others don’t forgive you, you can forgive yourself. Never use one mistake to cover up another mistake.

The meaning of human life should be in the process, not the conclusion. Therefore, one person should not influence another person with his or her own experience and opinions, not to mention that he is not you, and you are not him. Everyone's growth process is different. You should taste the ups and downs of life for yourself. Trying is life.

The reason a river can reach its destination is because it knows how to avoid obstacles.

The best is not necessarily the most suitable; the most suitable is the truly best. Our lives have never been full of dreams. That hibiscus flower is swaying deep in our hearts, and we almost want to destroy the infinite scenery. However, we are always accustomed to waiting for the first spring, and for the empty gains of the first season, we often rashly abandon the second spring and surrender the dream to the dream. The flowers of dreams only favor those who are patient and persistent in their pursuit. Today, if I give you a hibiscus flower in your dream, you should have the courage to buy the second spring from your dream.

Each of us should have more compassion, more love, much more than is needed to maintain our survival, and we should spread it to others, pursuing the light of life.

In fact, the emotion happened in an instant. Touching may be eternal, a little tolerance may make others grateful for a lifetime; a little love may make others warm for a lifetime; a word of blessing and encouragement may make a happy life.

Only when a person maintains a feeling of happiness and joy at all times can he love life more and love life more. Only happiness and a happy mood are the source of creativity and life motivation; only those who constantly create their own happiness and get along with themselves happily can stay away from pain and troubles and have a happy life. A complete life should have "three senses", a sense of mission, a sense of loss, and a sense of crisis.

Every entrepreneur has his own

characteristics and style, but they also have the same characteristics, which are: correct judgment, determination, and courage. Innovate and work hard.

The only guide to being a human being is your own conscience, looking back on the past. The only thing that makes people feel comfortable is the integrity and honesty of their actions. It is very unwise to live without this kind of comfort. Because people often laugh at themselves for their own failures and mistakes in planning; however, this comfort means that no matter what fate throws at you, you can always move forward with a firm pace and full of honor.

You cannot overwhelm everything, but you can be overwhelmed by everything.

People can be arrogant, but they cannot be charming;

People cannot be arrogant, but they can be righteous. What is the difference between celebrities and ordinary people? Things used by celebrities are cultural relics, and things used by ordinary people are trash; celebrities use forceful words and are called eloquence, while ordinary people are sophistry; celebrities greet people to be approachable, while ordinary people are just flattering others; celebrities dress sloppily, which is called having the temperament of an artist, do you deny it? The words are angry; when celebrities drink, they call them Hao Yin, but ordinary people call them Tan Bei; when celebrities get old, they call them Wang Lao, but ordinary people can only call them Lao Wang.

We may not be beautiful, but we are healthy;

We may not be great, but we are solemn;

We may not be perfect, but we work hard;

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We may not be eternal, but we are sincere.

The major decisions in life are planned by the heart, like a pre-calculated framework, waiting for your zodiac sign to move. If we want to change our destiny, we must first change the trajectory of our hearts.

Many things in the world are like this. When you pursue it deliberately, it will flutter its wings like a butterfly and fly away; when you put aside the surface distractions and concentrate on one thing for the sake of society and others, the unexpected gains are already quietly greeting you. you. Many times explanations are unnecessary - enemies don't believe your explanations, friends don't need your explanations.

There is nothing wrong with the youthful feelings of liking a person or a flower. As we grow up, as long as we have loved and loved something, it is beautiful

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If you want to succeed, then you have to remember: inheritance is zero, honesty first, learning second, politeness third, hard work fourth, and shrewdness fifth.

The gatherings in life are a kind of fate, and sometimes separation is also a blessing of love.

Life is not static, there will always be many unexpected things. It is very important that Mount Tai collapses but remains unchanged, and that storms arise but one remains calm. Turning danger into safety often requires a superb mind and a good attitude. Think more and be less excited, have more kindness and less hatred, and life will become more beautiful.

When you make your choice suitable for you and bravely accept everything that comes with life, you will gain your own self-esteem and confidence. Here you don’t have to use other people’s value orientation as the standard for your own success; you don’t have to base your self-esteem on others’ approval; you don’t have to weigh your confidence on the scale of money. Happiness does not distinguish between rich and poor, and self-confidence does not depend on others. Wealth is a kind of deposit. No matter how much money you have, you can't take it to the coffin;

Love is a kind of deposit. When a person dies, how can love be attached?

Power and position are a kind of deposit. No matter how powerful you are, you cannot escape the final change;

Even life itself is just a passing guest on this planet. . And this planet itself is, at best, a small inn built by the Creator for mankind.

Life is like a mirror, when we frown at it, it frowns back at us; when we smile at it, it smiles back at us!

It is like a one-way street with no chance of turning back.

Life is like a copper coin. Everyone can use it as they please, but a copper plate can only be used once.

Life is like a cafeteria, you choose what you want to eat.

Life is like playing cards. You may not win if you get good cards. It depends on how others play.

Life is like a play, life is a stage, everyone plays his or her own role, and everyone has a meaningful journey. If you have a heart, you can know, if you have feelings, you can love, if you have fate, you can gather, and if you have a dream, you can realize it.

Why do we live - for happiness?

What kind of person is the most beautiful - a confident person; so we are not only happy, but also confident.

When a man sees how circuitous his voyage is, he had better rely on his own conscience as his navigator. Only those who know how to automatically discipline themselves at the appropriate time can achieve true mental balance and have a happy home.

Friends who tolerate each other will be in the same boat for a hundred years;

Couples who tolerate each other will be together for a hundred years;

A world that tolerates each other will be peaceful and beautiful.

The most important thing about loving someone may not be the eternal vows and sweet words. Some trivial things in life can better reflect his affection for you, and that is the code of love.

Opportunities are like clear water, they can flow everywhere;

Opportunities are like moonlight, they can survive wherever there is a gap.

Life belongs to you and you should live it according to your own wishes. Money can promote virtue, but it can also destroy virtue. If we all help those in need with a kind heart. Then we will find that there are many things in the world that are much nobler and more precious than money.

Let what has been lost be lost, at least no longer wait.

You only have one time in your life when you can make a difference.

That is now, and yet many people waste their time regretting the past and worrying about the future.

Murphy's theorem: As long as anything can develop in a bad direction, it will definitely develop in that direction.

You can mention the law: some things only need to be mentioned. . . . . .

If it is a good thing, it will definitely be missed;

If it is a bad thing, it will definitely happen.

The law of non-reciprocity of expectations: things you don’t want to happen will not happen, and things you hope to happen will not come true.

Ettore's Law: When two teams run in parallel (you are in one of the teams), the other team is always faster.

The Law of Selective Fall: An object will fall in the way that causes the greatest harm.

Jin Ning’s inference: When the bread falls to the floor, the probability of the butter side facing down is directly proportional to the price of the carpet. A person should know his own position, just like a person knows his own face. This is the most sober consciousness. It is always more beautiful to wash away all the brilliance than to apply makeup and powder casually. So do what you can and do it the best. This is the most important thing in being a human being.

When you are the most painful, there are birds singing happily outside the window;

When you are the happiest, someone is suffering from illness, fighting and struggling with death.

The world is always the same, but our moods and experiences are different.

Everyone is looking forward to a relationship that lasts until death. But you must understand that relationships are like a house. If you cut corners during construction, it will become dangerous; if it is in disrepair for a long time, wall cancer will appear for no reason; sometimes it will leak due to poor construction; sometimes a big typhoon will blow out the glass; sometimes it may Devastated by earthquakes. If there is no fire escape equipment, it is not easy to deal with it. . . . . . And all houses are the same, even prisons, there is a door that can be entered and exited. There is always something missing in life. Whatever you gain, you will also lose. The important thing is that you should know what you want. Anyone who chases two rabbits will inevitably get nothing.

Although time will wither love, true love will always maintain the passion of first love.

Some people never lose their beauty no matter how old they get - they move it from their faces to their hearts.

You can make wealth in a way you don’t like; you can also cure diseases with medicine you don’t believe in; but you can’t get happiness from someone you don’t love.

More comfort, less anxiety;

More truth, less falsehood;

More happiness, less misery .

Our reason enables us to see through life again and again;

Our passion makes us blinded again and again.

Thinking about others means giving you a pair of wings. In this world, in addition to power, money, prestige, violence, etc., there is another thing that gives people success; with it, a person's potential can be displayed exponentially, and it is - integrity

One day you fall in love, you must keep it a secret, and you must not reveal your heart until you know the other person’s true identity.

If we can love bravely, forgive generously, express our gratification generously for the happiness of others, and cherish the love that surrounds us rationally, then we will achieve a perfection that other lives have never achieved.

If a person is not handsome at the age of 20, not strong at the age of 30, not rich at the age of 40, and not wise at the age of 50, then he will never be handsome, strong, rich, or wise in this life.

At the age of 30, a person should know himself as well as the palm of his hand. He should know exactly what his shortcomings and advantages are, he should know how far he can go, and he should be able to foresee who he will become in the future. , and more importantly, accept it all. At the age of 20, people are known for their willpower, at the age of 30, they win with wisdom, and at the age of 40, they rely on rational judgment.

Always believe in this: everything will change. No matter how traumatized you are, how heavy your heart is, or how destitute you are, you must persevere. The sun will rise after it sets, and the days of misfortune will eventually come to an end. This has been the case in the past and will be the case in the future.

Weigh whether the success you want to achieve is worth what you lose for it.

Selflessly passing on one’s best qualities and best skills to those who need him, this human virtue is more eternal than anything else.

The failure of some people in marriage is not that they found the wrong partner, but that they failed to understand it from the beginning; when they choose love, they also choose a lifestyle.

Remember, the best relationships are about mutual love, not mutual need.

When you have a dispute with a loved one, limit it to this dispute and don't bring up old scores. You should remember that sometimes, if you don't get what you want, it may be a wonderful reward given to you by fate.

Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you really want.