People should be less blindly obedient and more aware; less comparisons and more efforts; less caressing and more tolerance; less worrying about gains and losses, and more open-minded and calm.

Modility is not what is generally called modesty, which is merely accepting people’s opinions on the surface, nor is it not arguing or criticizing with people, blurring the boundaries between right and wrong, and truth. Do not blindly follow other people's opinions without understanding them. ——Xu Teli