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The doctor asserted that she would not live to be 50 years old, so she was so angry that she went home and made a "three noes" and lived to be 93 years old.
When it comes to women's groups in the Republic of China, the first thing that comes to mind may be the "Song sisters". The Song sisters are all famous talented women, but there is another woman who is equally famous, and that is the famous "Zhang Sisi" in Suzhou.

The four sisters are famous talented women in the Republic of China, and the Zhang family is also a famous family in Suzhou. Temperament beauties who grew up under the influence of classical culture are all outstanding.

/kloc-0 In the summer of 909, Zhang Yunhe was born in Hefei, Anhui.

The newborn Zhang Yunhe had an accident. She was tightly wrapped around the umbilical cord for three times and had a choking reaction.

When Zhang Yunhe was born, he could not cry like other children, and was basically regarded as a dead baby. The Zhang family is very worried about the safety of Xiaoyunhe.

Then, Zhang Yunhe's grandmother thought of a folk prescription, and she immediately found the hookah. Zhang Yunhe's grandmother sprayed Xiao Yunhe's nose with a hookah, and the smoke instantly stimulated Xiao Yunhe, making Xiao Yunhe gentle.

Seeing Xiao Yunhe's nose and mouth twitching twice, the Zhang family was relieved and wept with joy.

Perhaps the misfortune at birth laid the foundation for Zhang Yunhe's hard life.

Zhang Yunhe was born thin, and her face and facial features are small.

Zhang Yunhe in her girlhood was wrapped in warm bookish atmosphere. She wears a pair of round glasses on her fair and beautiful face, and has the hair of a student who has just reached the tragus. Because she was not very healthy when she was born, Zhang Yunhe has always been thin.

In the late Qing Dynasty and the early Republic of China, people's general aesthetics were morbid, and the beauty in their hearts was Lin Daiyu's delicate sister Lin in A Dream of Red Mansions.

Zhang Yunhe's appearance is similar to that of Lin Daiyu, and people praise her as a beauty.

Zhang Yunhe was very unhappy when she heard that others compared her to Lin Daiyu. She and Lin Daiyu have different personalities.

Therefore, Zhang Yunhe hates Lin Daiyu's character of being trapped by love and crying all day.

Zhang Yunhe has a lively personality and likes to jump up and down since he was a child. Pull my sister's hair today and kick her stool tomorrow. She also likes to give nicknames to others.

When she was a child, she taught her sister to read and write. She had to change her name to Wang Zhizhi, hoping that her sister would wake up.

Zhang Yunhe also sewed his nickname for his sister on his schoolbag. Zhang Chonghe was very angry when he saw it, so they had a quarrel. Zhang Chonghe picked up scissors and cut out these words.

Zhang Yunhe studied Kunqu Opera when he was a child. All her sisters like Du Liniang, but Zhang Yunhe likes Guan Gong. She likes this brave man who likes to be brave.

Zhang Yunhe's great grandfather, Zhang Shusheng, was a famous man. He used to be the governor of Guangdong, Guangxi and Zhili in the Qing Dynasty.

Zhang Shusheng made outstanding achievements in the battle to annihilate Taiping Army, and was one of the best figures in Huai Army.

The Zhang family's reputation has always been great, and it is also a talented person. They held important positions in the imperial court until the generation of Zhang Yunhe's father, Zhang Wuling.

Zhang Wuling had no intention of being an official. He thought that what his parents did was thankless, so he began to focus on the development of pedagogy and became an educator.

Zhang Yunhe's father was a pioneer in promoting women's education in the Republic of China. Zhang's four sisters are beautiful and natural under the education of Zhang Wuling.

Zhang Wuling is worried that if his family stays in Hefei, they will be infected with the vanity of aristocratic children. At the same time, she is also worried that she will be poisoned by old ideas. The family moved from Hefei to Suzhou and finally decided to settle in this Jiangnan water town.

Zhang Wuling's education for her four daughters is mainly traditional education, but it does not prevent them from accepting new ideas from abroad.

So at that time, the four sisters of the Zhang family were progressive women. They are independent, tenacious and have the best quality.

The Zhang family is quite famous. The four daughters at home are not only beautiful, but also talented. Many big families want to marry the Zhang family.

Mr. Ye Shengtao once said: "The four talented women in Jiuru Lane are happy all their lives."

Zhang Yunhe is the second child in the family. She is generous, dare to love and hate, independent in thought and not afraid of people's words.

Zhang Yunhe takes personal feelings as the evaluation standard in his career and love, and his personality is most vividly exposed.

At that time, appropriateness was very important, but Zhang Yunhe ignored it and married Zhou Youguang desperately.

In fact, Zhou Youguang is not an idle generation. His ancestors were very prestigious, but his generation began to decline.

Zhou Youguang's family is not rich, and there are four sisters on it. Zhou Youguang's father abandoned them when he was very young, and Zhou Youguang's mother raised Zhou Youguang and his sister alone.

At that time, it was not easy for women to go to school. Zhou Youguang's mother and sisters pinned all their love on Zhou Youguang, and they tried to make Zhou Youguang a college student.

Zhang Yun and Zhou Youguang were childhood friends.

In 19 16, ten-year-old Zhou Youguang moved to Suzhou, and they lived next door to Zhang Yunhe's house.

Zhou Youguang's sisters Zhou Jun and Zhang Yunhe are alumni of Le Yi Girls' Middle School.

/kloc-Zhang Yunhe, 0/6 years old, met Zhou Youguang when she went to her classmate's house to play. At that time, Zhang Yunhe was in the third grade of junior high school, while Zhou Youguang was in college.

It took them eight years to get married, and their feelings were full of twists and turns.

As a teenager, Zhou Youguang secretly loved Zhang Yunhe, while Zhang Yunhe concealed his love.

Whenever Zhou Youguang goes to the Zhang family to find her, let the housekeeper tell Zhou Youguang that he is not at home. Zhang Yunhe's repeated avoidance earned her the nickname "Gentle Breakwater" among her classmates.

Until later, Zhang Yunhe went to China College in Shanghai, and Zhou Youguang also studied at St. John's University in Shanghai.

In this way, they met again in a different place, but they have not yet become partners.

Later, Zhou Youguang went to Hangzhou Institute of Public Education to teach. Zhang Yunhe originally studied in Shanghai. Affected by the war, Zhang Yunhe went through Hangzhou Zhijiang University. In this way, the two finally came together.

After falling in love, they will go to the West Lake on weekends, which is the most suitable place for falling in love.

They have been to Lingyin Temple in Hangzhou together. They came up from the mountain road with a monk behind them.

Tired of walking, they sat down by a tree, and the monk sat with them. Then they listened to Zhang Yun and his wife.

Seeing Zhang Yunhe's high nose, the monk thought she was a foreigner. The monk asked Zhou Youguang, "How many years has this foreigner been in China?" .

Zhou Youguang jokingly replied, "She has been in China for three years."

The monk nodded and said, "No wonder she speaks Chinese so well."

In summer, Zhou Youguang invited Zhang Yunhe to Shanghai to listen to Beethoven's symphony. They are listening on the sofa in the French Garden of the French Concession.

At that time, it cost a lot of money to buy a ticket. As a result, Zhang Yunhe fell asleep after listening for a while.

At first, Zhou Youguang felt that this relationship was inferior. He once wrote to Zhang Yunhe, "I am poor, and I am afraid I can't give you happiness." Zhou Youguang admits that his family is poor and there is no guarantee that he will bring happiness to Zhang Yunhe in the future.

Zhang Yunhe doesn't care. The title of Miss Giants is not a reason to limit her development and pursuit.

To this end, Zhang Yunhe replied to Zhou Youguang with a long letter of ten pages. The central idea is "happiness is to be created by yourself."

Zhang Yunhe's parents are also very open-minded and advocate children's free love.

On April 30th, 1933, Zhang Yun and Zhou Youguang held a simple wedding in Shanghai. Zhang Yunhe is the first of the four sisters to get married.

After their marriage, Zhang Yun and Zhou Youguang lived in harmony and happiness. After marriage, Zhang Yunhe was mainly engaged in teaching, and she had a gift for writing articles.

When a newspaper invited Zhang Yunhe to write a supplement, she wrote an article "Women are not Flowers", which was widely circulated at that time.

Five months after their marriage, the husband and wife embarked on a trip to study in Japan.

After going to Japan, Zhang Yunhe mainly studied Japanese literature, while Zhou Youguang studied social economics, under the tutelage of Japanese professor He Shangzhao. He Shangzhao had a great influence on the left-wing intellectuals in China at that time.

Zhang Yunhe soon found herself pregnant and had to go home early.

He Shangzhao, a teacher worshipped by Zhou Youguang, was persecuted by the Japanese government and was arrested and imprisoned. Imperial University of Kyoto, where Zhou Youguang was studying at that time, did not recognize China's equivalent academic ability. Zhou Youguang felt that there was no point in staying any longer, so he returned to China.

1937, with the outbreak of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, all harmony and tranquility were broken.

It is precisely because of the wartime that Zhang Yunhe's strong character emerged under his weak appearance.

During the war, Zhou Youguang could not stay with his wife and children all the time because of his work. In order to escape the war, Zhang Yunhe moved many times with children and old people.

According to the records, she experienced at least ten big moves and twenty small moves.

194 1 One day in May, their little daughter Xiaohe suddenly complained of a stomachache and had a high fever.

Zhou Youguang was on a business trip, so Zhang Yunhe had to take her daughter to the hospital by herself. Xiao He got appendicitis and his stomach was festering and infected.

Although the diagnosis and treatment of appendicitis today is not difficult, there was no effective treatment at that time.

Helpless Zhang Yunhe had to watch her daughter suffer from illness in the hospital bed every day. She was heartbroken and helpless, and her husband was not around.

The illness lasted for two months, and it was torture for her to watch the child endure severe pain until she died.

After that, Zhang Yunhe's father died. In just four or five years, she experienced the death of a relative, the death of a nanny, and someone knocked her and her family out and broke into the house. This is the darkest period of Zhang Yunhe's life.

After another year and a half, Zhang Yun and his family moved to Chengdu.

During the Chengdu War, her son was suddenly hit by a stray bullet. The bullet went through his waist and made six holes in his internal organs. Zhang Yunhe's husband Zhou Youguang is in Chungking at this time.

Zhang Yunhe had to go to the Air Force Hospital with his landlady. In order to look after his son, Zhang Yunhe stayed up for three days and nights.

The doctor is not sure about Xiaoping's condition either. They are not sure whether Deng Xiaoping can survive, and Zhang Yunhe's life falls into darkness again.

When Zhou Youguang hurried home, his son Xiaoping was out of danger.

Zhang Yunhe later wrote a description of married life in the book: "Most crises are always reserved for women." This is not a complaint, just telling the truth.

Zhang Yunhe is relying on this hard work, taking the whole family and Zhou Youguang through the hurdle of life together.

During his stay in War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, Zhang Yunhe couldn't bear to watch the people suffer for lack of medical care and medicine. Although she didn't study professional medical knowledge, she began to become a doctor.

In this way, Zhang Yunhe started operating without a license with a little health knowledge. Zhang Yunhe prescribed medicine for the people, vaccinated children with vaccinia, operated on sores, and even delivered babies.

Zhang Yunhe can really do anything well. She used to help pregnant women change from dystocia to natural childbirth. People are so grateful that she even wants her children to recognize Zhang Yunhe as their godmother.

1953, Zhang Yunhe, who was only 44 years old, suffered a heart attack, and his life was saved with the full efforts of doctors. The doctor told her that she might not live to see next year.

Zhang Yunhe can't let go of her husband and children, so she is inevitably worried about her health.

Back home, Zhang Yunhe set himself three noes, that is, "Don't offend his family with your own mistakes", "Don't punish yourself with your own mistakes" and "Don't hurt yourself with others' mistakes".

By strictly following the "three noes" principle, Zhang Yunhe maintained an optimistic and positive attitude in the face of illness. As usual, she still takes care of her husband and children while enriching her life by reading. Finally, my physical condition miraculously improved.

Zhang Yunhe's heart disease has not further developed and worsened, and her mood has changed greatly because of these principles.

Not only did what the doctor said not come true, but she lived longer than the average person until she was 93 years old.

Catch up with the Cultural Revolution after the war, and the family separated. It was not until 197 1 that Zhang Yun and Zhou Youguang reunited.

The feelings of Zhou Youguang and Zhang Yunhe in their later years are more loving and sweet.

Zhang Yunhe recalled her first handshake with Zhou Youguang. She said, "When one of my hands was caught by him, I gave my heart to him."

Zhang Yunhe likes to drink coffee, and Zhou Youguang likes to drink tea. Finally, they agreed to have tea together in the morning and coffee together in the afternoon.

When drinking, couples will "toast to Mei Qi", that is, raise the cup to the position of eyebrows to show respect.

Zhou Youguang is a famous linguist in China and the father of Chinese Pinyin. Zhou Youguang is a stone to build a bridge, a gardener to help grow, and a sail to raise the hope of the motherland.

Zhang Yunhe is the inheritor of Kunqu culture in China. She continued to write a diary of Kunqu opera, studying its singing, phonology, articulation and intonation, with hundreds of thousands of words. While studying Kunqu opera, she is also responsible for editing Water magazine.

Later, with the rise of the Internet, Zhang Yunhe followed suit and began to learn computer typing.

At that time, Zhang Yunhe was 86 years old. She doesn't know Chinese pinyin, so she can only look it up in the dictionary and mark it word for word.

Pinyin is Zhou Youguang's strong point. At this time, he began to teach his wife patiently. Every word Zhang Yunhe typed was attributed to Zhou Lao, especially the first three words she learned were "dear".

Old Zhang Yunhe still loves beauty. Every day, she dresses up carefully and asks her sister if she is beautiful.

However, where you will go is always ruthless. In 2002, Zhang Yunhe died of a heart attack at the age of 93, and she left Zhou Youguang forever.

After his wife's death, Zhou Youguang wrote in an essay "The Tree Outside the Window". He said, "There are two chairs. My wife and I sit side by side every day, drinking tea and coffee and toasting Mei Qi."

After Zhang Yunhe's death, Zhou Youguang replaced two chairs in the study with sofas. At night, he curled up on the sofa and fell asleep. Zhou Youguang didn't want to go back to the bedroom and face the empty bed.

Zhou Youguang passed away at the age of 1 12 on October 4th, 2065.

If Mr Zhang Yunhe were alive today, she would still be a progressive woman.

Modern society always advocates independent women, but in fact, some views are too extreme, and women's independence is not exactly the same as strong women.

An independent woman can't show weakness and cry, which is also adding shackles to herself. Independence is the independence of thought and personality, which is connected with the outside world without blending.

Mr. Zhang Yunhe is a new-age woman who has walked out of the old times. She practiced the independent spirit of women all her life, and also conveyed sparks and hope to the society.