However, in middle age, I realized that whether I am unhappy or happy, it is my own business. I can only experience it myself, tell others, and people who understand me will enlighten me. Those who don't understand will only read my own jokes.
As someone said:
What you didn't understand before, you will understand later;
What you didn't understand when you were a child, you will understand when you grow up;
What you don't understand when you grow up will be understood when you get old.
Allow others to exist freely in the way they like, and understanding others is actually understanding yourself.
Sit still and think about yourself all the time. Gossip is not personal.
If a person can often calm down and meditate, reflect on his own shortcomings, not discuss right and wrong, and keep a compassionate and peaceful heart after recognizing the essence of things.
When a woman reaches middle age, she should know how to be silent, because life has gone through ups and downs and finally ushered in the second half of her life.
Learn to see and see through the world, it is better to learn to cultivate one's morality, and silence is the best choice.
Looking back now, I thank those experiences for making me grow up, becoming more mature, making me more confident in life and learning to love and give.
Make peace with yourself and learn to be silent.
Some people say that a woman's best state is: her eyes are full of stories, but her face is not weathered. She wears light makeup and her favorite clothes every day. She doesn't envy anyone, laugh at anyone and depend on anyone. She just works hard silently, which is what live high wants most.
Romain rolland once said, "There is only one true heroism in the world. We don't envy anyone, we don't laugh at anyone and we don't depend on anyone. We just work hard silently, and we want to live high.
People flash to old age. When you see through the world and life, you naturally don't argue, argue and care.
Undoubtedly, it is a kind of magnanimity.
Quiet is a guarantee.
Don't care, it's a kind of elegance.
For the rest of my life, I hope your eyes are full of stories, but your face is not weathered.
Don't envy anyone, don't laugh at anyone, and don't rely on anyone.
Just work hard silently and live the life you like.