Don’t laugh at the man with white hair and flowers. Time will not make the beauty grow old.

There is pine in slowness, tranquility in pine, concentration in tranquility, and spirit in concentration.

Trial and error in small steps, iterate quickly.

Jack Ma’s advice to start-up entrepreneurs

1. Opportunities that everyone cannot see clearly are real opportunities.

2. Let employees work with a smile.

3. Customers come first, employees come second, and shareholders come third.

4. Learn less from success and more from failure.

5. Change before change happens.

6. Forget money, forget making money.

7. Being smart is worse than being stupid and persistent.

8. Mentality determines posture, and posture determines state.

Now I no longer like people who are eloquent, but I like people who are clumsy in language expression. Probably because I have become inarticulate from the endless talk in the past. Sincerity does not require too many words, and hypocrisy must be hidden in every fold of language.

Haotian Business Thinking

When you come into contact with more people and the higher the level, you will find that the more high-end and educated people, most of them support each other and develop together. Because when you are well, everyone is well. The lower the end and the lower the level of people, the more they like to slander, envy, undermine, and despise, because I am not good, and I don’t want you to be good. Therefore, the primary factor that affects a person is his realm and thinking. The most important thing is to move forward with a group of people who have the same pattern and thinking.

? ——Teacher Haotian of Haotian Marketing Agency

Good morning, classmates

You may not see the results for the time being, but don’t If you are discouraged or anxious, it’s not that you are not growing, but that you are taking root

Keep up the good work! Let’s strive to make a little progress every day!

——Chengyue Reading and Writing Club

Author Qi Fanqi? The author of "Write My Heart" wrote in the book: When writing, do not say: "I will write a story." poem." This mentality will make you freeze on the spot. Try not to have any expectations of yourself, sit down at your desk and say, "I have the freedom to write the worst garbage in the world." If you expect to write a great work every time you sit down, writing will bring you Yours will always be a huge disappointment. In addition, that expectation can also keep you from writing.

The pattern is to not deny others while being confident, it is a kind of understanding and tolerance. The pattern is not "hiding it from oneself", but "distributing it to others". The pattern is that the more proud you are, the more selfless you are. The situation is not a "single-win" situation, but a "win-win situation". ~~Liu Yong

Xue Xue·Ying·Morning Quotations The American social psychologist Festinger has a very famous judgment, known as the "Festinger's Law": 10 things in life are caused by what happens. What happens to you is made up of what happens to you, and the other 90% is determined by how you react to what happens. There are 10 things in life that we cannot control, and the other 90 are within our control. If we cannot control our emotions well, we will have to pay for it.

The real manager is to manage people’s emotions. Every time you get angry, calm yourself down and solve the problem in a matter-of-fact way, which is a hundred times more rational than a beast that unleashes its emotions. Don't make any decisions while angry. Try to divert your attention, put yourself in someone else's shoes, and wait until you calm down before communicating and solving problems calmly. Only by controlling your emotions can you take control of your life.

Thank you for the writing, which carries the bitingness of the wind, but gives me enough sense of security. It understands my sorrow and sadness so well.

Thanks to the words, I have kindness and let me know how to treat everyone well.

Thanks to the words, I have been educated and learned to respect everyone.

Thanks to the words, I can put all the memories in my heart and everywhere I can touch them.

Being in a busy city, but feeling extremely lonely, this is probably a common problem for people who like words, and they are always immersed in their own world.

Thanks to the words, the Albizia Julibrissin tree in my memory is so clear!

Thank you for the words, which have always accompanied my loneliness, coldness, and pride! (Xue Xiaochan)

The water is deep and silent, but the people are silent.

The weak show strength and the strong show weakness.

Five dimensions of improving leadership:

Taking the lead is enough to lead others,

Self-discipline is enough to convince others,

Being light on wealth is enough to gather People,

Being generous is enough to win people,

He who wins people’s hearts wins the world!

Take the lead: Put down your body and conquer in person!

Self-discipline: Correct your position and restrain your desires!

Disrespecting wealth: When wealth is scattered, people gather together; when wealth is gathered, people scatter!

Quantitative and lenient: Don’t be confused about big things, pretend to be confused about small things!

Popularity: Trusted by internal employees and external customers!

We must accept the beauty of flowers blooming, and we must also accept the decline of flowers. Just like life, we must accept its glory and its ups and downs!

Three elements of career planning:

1. Value planning: how to continuously improve your value (knowledge, skills, abilities) through planning

2 . Exploit strengths and avoid weaknesses: Only by understanding your own wishes and strengths can you know what path you can take next

3. Focus on the outside: When making personal planning, the external environment is an important reference factor, including talents in the industry Supply and demand relations, changes in organizational forms, etc.

To make yourself strong, you must let go of ten things

1. Face

Sometimes we lower our heads to see what is right. Take your own path. Many people think that they are already living a good life and are unwilling to try new things. They cannot let go of many things and lose face, and eventually die in shame.

2. Let go of the pressure

Whether you are tired or not depends on your heart. The room of the soul will become filled with dust if not cleaned.

3. Let go of the past

Only by letting go of the past can you live a happier life. Work hard to change your mentality and adjust your mood.

4. Let go of your inferiority complex

Delete your inferiority complex from your dictionary. Not everyone can be a great man, but everyone can be a strong person. Believe in yourself and find your position, and you can also have a valuable life.

5. Let go of laziness

Strive to change your destiny! The trick is to do an ordinary little thing to perfection. It is a unique skill.

6. Let go of negativity

Despair to the left, hope to the right! If you want to be a successful person, then please cheer for the "best self", let positivity defeat negativity, let nobility defeat vulgarity, let sincerity defeat hypocrisy, let tolerance defeat intolerance, let happiness defeat melancholy, and let diligence defeat Lazy, let strength defeat fragility, let greatness defeat vulgarity...

7. Let go of complaining

Instead of complaining, work hard! All failure is preparation for success.

8. Let go of hesitation

Act now and your success will be unlimited! Don't be indecisive when you are sure about something; when you have chosen a direction, just go on the road and don't look back

9. Let go of the narrow-mindedness

If the heart is wide, the world will be wide. Tolerance is a virtue. Tolerating others is actually making way for your own soul.

10. Let go of doubt

It is difficult to achieve anything if you have doubts. Don't be suspicious when you employ people, don't use people when you are suspicious. Don't use your own doubts to judge other people's thoughts, and don't doubt others, otherwise it will only affect the friendship between each other.

When you understand: rules first, favors second, you have knocked on the most difficult door for people.

When you understand: integrity first, intelligence second, you will understand that cleverness is only temporary, but trust lasts forever.

When you learn that loyalty is more important than ability, you will be a person who knows how to be grateful and can take on big things.

Before you want to do anything, the first factor is to be mentally strong. Of course, being mentally strong does not make you arrogant. A humble attitude with a little persistence, a peaceful state of mind with a little aggressiveness, Gentle yet gentle, tender yet firm, there is no need for difficulty or hardship, and one will never give up until the goal is achieved...the fearless spirit of a true leader! Messi, I support you and believe you can defeat your opponent! Success often comes at a price silently behind the scenes, and only then can the wonderful scene bloom at that moment on stage! What kind of spirit will have what kind of results.

Today’s sharing:

Topic: What’s wrong with your learning ability

A very common problem among Chinese students is that they only know themselves I didn’t learn well, but I don’t know why. Some students judge that the reason for not studying well is that they don't like to study. What such students need is a suitable way to start. After all, his grades were really poor in the past, and it was difficult for him to be willing to start learning and be interested.

For those who study hard. We are very good at attributing their poor learning to lack of learning methods or incorrect learning methods. However, this attribution method does not actually identify the real problem.

1. Reasons for poor study

1. Typical insufficient time investment.

If you want to achieve a better learning effect, you must first invest enough time. No matter how good the learning method is, it will take time. Moreover, the longer you study, the more proficient you become. Sometimes, even if it is not efficient enough, the effect will not be bad if the time invested reaches a certain level.

2. Energy

Studying time without sufficient energy is of low quality, so compared with time, it is actually more scientific to use energy to measure how much we invest in something. .

3. Attention

The problem for many people is that they study for a long time, but they don’t have the time to concentrate. In our era, attention is a scarce resource, whether it is TikTok or Weibo. There is a saying that goes like this. It used to be said that genius is 1 inspiration and 99 perspiration. In fact, genius is 3 hard work and 97 the ability not to be distracted by the Internet.

4. Goals

The role of goals in promoting learning is very obvious. People without goals may not learn well, but they may not be good enough. A goal that is achievable but difficult can tap into your greatest potential.

5. Strategy

Many people say that their methods are wrong, but they are actually saying that their strategies are wrong. The correct way should be to practice in areas where you are not proficient and gradually narrow down the areas that you are not good at.

The equation of efficient learning, the final learning effect = time * energy * attention * goal * strategy.

This does not include factors such as IQ and talent, because at the current stage of China's exams, people with a normal IQ can do well. Even at Tsinghua University and Peking University, a person with a normal IQ can pass.

This equation does two things.

First, provide you with directions for improvement in learning. When you improve every factor, from goals to strategies, from focus to energy, and adjust them all, the final compound effect may be an explosive improvement in performance.

Second, it helps you check and detect problems in your own learning. Don't generalize, but confirm which factor you have the problem with.

2. Several other factors that affect learning effects

1. Learning motivation

The reward is learning itself: proving one’s ability and being curious about the knowledge itself Heart;

Utilitarianism is easy to give up: obtain a degree; find a good job to make money in the future;

Dislike academics: parents require or meet other people's expectations.

2. Ways to maintain sufficient motivation

First, establish phased goals, be clear about the stage you are in, and ensure that each stage has specific results

Second, think about the scenario after success, the more specific it is, the better, and maintain the enthusiasm for success.

Third, find the comparable target in front of you.

3. How to turn passivity into initiative

1. Ask yourself three questions

What can you get from studying? Ten years from now, who do you want to be and what do you want to have? Finally, do the answers to these two questions overlap?

If so, write this thing down. This is the best motivation for your study.

2. Action

Improve your own learning methods, or try to change the objects and materials you study.

Autonomy is essential to our happiness. Only if everything is done proactively can a person be happy. It is too painful for us Chinese students to learn. In addition to passive learning that hurts people's interest, many things are hurting our interest in learning.

In terms of difficulty, many learners who do not have a good foundation feel that it is too difficult when they first enter a new field, making it difficult to accumulate a sense of accomplishment, leading to loss of interest.

The sense of achievement is one of the important sources of interest.

So you must control the difficulty, whether it is setting goals or making plans. Interest is more important than success.

The second is that it is too repetitive. During the review stage before the exam, the stale knowledge is repeated over and over again. When repeating each time, pay attention to staggering the form of repetition.

In short, the various problems we have in learning, including procrastination and inattention, are often not caused by problems with self-discipline, but by problems with the learning objects and learning methods themselves.

Today I will introduce you to an equation. In other words, our learning effect = time * energy * attention * goal * strategy.

If every factor is increased, our learning effect can grow explosively. We also introduced the impact of learning motivation on learning, as well as several factors that harm interest in learning and how to deal with them.

(Sharing from super speaker Liu Yuanyuan on how to improve learning ability.)