Don’t evaluate other people’s appearance, because they don’t rely on you for their livelihood; don’t evaluate other people’s virtues, because you may not be as noble as them; don’t evaluate other people’s families, because that has nothing to do with you. In short, don't judge anyone not even your family. Don't spend money indiscriminately, because you may lose your job tomorrow; don't be arrogant, because you may lose your position tomorrow; don't brag about your love, because you may lose your love tomorrow; don't wrong yourself, because you may die tomorrow.
Life is like a cauldron. When you reach the bottom of the pot, no matter which direction you go, it is always upward. The most difficult moment may be the beginning of the turning point. Changing the way of thinking may usher in a turning point. Optimistic and open-minded people can make ordinary life interesting, make difficult days sweet and precious, and make tedious things simple and feasible. Looking at the world with a normal mind, flowers blooming and fading are all scenery.
Life is like a play, and your acting skills are all up to you. Whether it is cups, washing utensils or tableware, it is all decided by you. Perhaps, there is no long-awaited rainbow after the storm. Maybe, after hard work, we didn't get the corresponding reward, but after all, we have all worked hard. Perhaps, the rainbow is not far away, and rewards are waiting for you not far ahead. Please live every day seriously and believe that tomorrow will be better.
Life is in a hurry, so there is no need to settle for perfection. Doing what you like to do is the most important thing.
In this world, there is no perfect choice once and for all. You cannot have spring flowers and autumn moon at the same time, you cannot have fruits and flowers at the same time. Not all the benefits are yours. You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can gain something. You have to learn to accept the incompleteness and sadness of your fate, and then be at peace. Because, this is life.
Life is like a scale, always requiring some kind of balance: one side is giving, the other side is receiving; one side is giving, the other side is getting; one side is farming, the other side is harvesting; one side is material, and the other side is spiritual ; One side is oneself, the other side is others. God is also in a dilemma. He cannot give you all the good things, nor can he give you all the misfortunes. Only by looking down on gains and losses can you find the best balance in life.
If you want to be happy, you must be like a sunflower: face the sun, work hard to grow, maintain your true colors, and be neither humble nor arrogant. In life, there is as much pain as there is care; there is as much happiness as there is tolerance. If you can't let it go, it will naturally become a burden. The more burdens you have, the less happy your life will be. A careless heart is like a bag, a tolerant heart is like a funnel. A complicated heart is careless, but a simple heart is easy to be happy.
If the mind is not calm, the Qi will be inconsistent; if the Qi is not harmonious, life will be a mess. Living life is a matter of passion. If you are in a bad mood, you will not be able to feel at ease in anything you do. You should always adjust your mentality, settle your emotions, make your heart quiet and peaceful. Tranquility is like a flower that blooms quietly without asking for appreciation; tranquility is like a river that flows smoothly and makes its own way. Be still and let the beauty of life bloom naturally.
Liking someone is a feeling, but not liking someone is a fact. Facts are easy to explain, but feelings are hard to describe.
Pain is just an episode in your life, don't let it become your everything. Life itself is a dynamic, and having the courage to admit everything that happens to you is a kind of wisdom. Accepting impermanence is not a pessimistic view of the world, because what we painfully lose can also be gained again. The principle of impermanence tells us that life has infinite possibilities. You can actively contribute, but you cannot force the ending.
A good mood is the only wealth that cannot be deprived of in life. A good attitude will bring you a good mood. Don't regret yesterday's failure, don't worry about today's loss, don't worry about tomorrow's gains and losses, be indifferent to fame and fortune, be content and happy, let nature take its course, and be content with the situation. Only after climbing some mountains do you realize how difficult it is. After crossing some rivers, you know the trek. Only after crossing some hurdles can we know how to transcend.