If everyone wants to reform himself and lead a meaningful and valuable life, he must follow the guidance of conscience. Everyone has a conscience, and there is nothing external in the heart, and there is nothing external in the heart. Conscience is the Tao and justice.
We should follow our conscience in everything we do. When people follow their conscience, positive energy will come out. Without conscience, negative energy will come out.
remember: only by following one's conscience can one feel at ease in one's heart, free from being disturbed by external things, and free to follow one's inclinations without overstepping the bounds.
2 the most important thing for a man to do is to understand the truth. As long as he does it according to the truth, it will certainly last for a long time.
The most important thing for a person to do is to understand the truth. As long as you do it according to the truth, it will last for a long time. Even if there is a temporary setback, it is just a necessary test. You don't have to doubt or retreat. If you go forward bravely, you will surely get out of the road of life.
but people are not sages, so it is impossible not to make mistakes. Sometimes we feel that we understand the truth, but we have embarked on the wrong path, so we must be alert: there is nothing wrong with the truth, but we have done something wrong.
3 Your destiny is created by your will, but remember, don't be forced or overdone.
Now many people say, "As long as I like it, why not". This is very dangerous. To choose what you like among the legitimate things, the order is very important.
it is a fact that the whole environment is changing. He who knows the times is a hero, but most people's eyes can't see that far, so Confucius put forward the idea of "doing what I like and have fun": I will do it conscientiously and finally prove that I am successful, and I am very happy; Prove that I have failed, and I have nothing to complain about. Because life only asks for four words: a clear conscience, that is, "do your best and listen to your destiny."
remember: everyone has his own life, and he is also making his own life, so he can't be forced. In fact, as long as you are interested, willing to work hard and really care, you can get ahead in any field.
4 don't be perfectionist in life. If you must be perfectionist, you should add two words, which are called "you are disappointed". Compromise is the only way to perfection.
Life is impossible to be complete. Don't be perfect. If you must ask for everything, you must add two words: you are wronged. Compromise is the only way to perfection.
if a person can't stand the compromise, then don't seek perfection, so that he can get even. You have everything that won't be good, and others have everything that is bad.
Feng Shui turns in turn. When it turns to someone else, you should be relaxed, because you can catch your breath, and then you will have the spare capacity to support it when it turns to you again.
5 keep your duty and respond in principle.
nowadays, many people think that the world is changeable, so they advocate innovation and change, which leads to chaos, disobedience and chaos, only knowing change, not knowing what is normal, and even acting rashly.
The Book of Changes tells us that it cannot be changed. Be unchangeable, because it is not the duty to be unchangeable. The task of life is to change yourself, which is also seeking change, but don't change it indiscriminately. Change in principle is the real duty.
life is self-inflicted, and everyone's fortunes are also the result of self-inflicted. And those who keep their duty, be conscientious, work down to earth, do not cheat and cheat, be worthy of being right in the sky, be worthy of being right in the ground, be upright and open-minded, and naturally be able to avoid disasters and seek happiness.
6 if you try to get through nowhere, the more you fight in Vietnam, the more frustrated you are. Only when you are in danger can you save your life.
There is no such thing as right or wrong or good or bad. It all depends on whether a person has done the right thing with the right person at the right time.
so, is it inappropriate to stop doing things? Of course not. We can't sit still and wait for death, but we should make timely adjustments. The goal is unique, but the road is tortuous.
China people seldom take the straight road. We always approach the goal in a tortuous and circuitous way. This is great wisdom.
Life is a process of difficulties and obstacles, and our whole life experience is difficult. Of course you can choose to escape, but it will never work. Seek communication in impassable places, the more brave the Vietnam War, the more frustrated and exciting it is, and save the day, so that life can be enriched.
7 if you get along well with yourself, others will get along well with you.
if you want to have a good relationship with others, you must first have a good relationship with yourself. If you don't get along well with yourself, no one will get along well with you; If you get along well with yourself, others will get along well with you. Therefore, people should first understand themselves and get along well with themselves, instead of just seeing others.
a person who doesn't like himself will probably be liked by few people. But in fact, most people don't like themselves and always feel that they are not good-looking. There is only one way to change others, and that is to change yourself, and to change yourself is not to say plastic surgery, but to accept yourself.
When you accept yourself one day, you will find that all people get along well with you and begin to accept you.
8 if you can stand the loss, it means that you are blessed enough.
China people always tell you to be honest, which makes sense. Heaven has no relatives, often with good people. Heaven has no concept of kinship. It treats people equally, but it always takes care of honest people. Who will suffer and who will take advantage?
we often say that to lose is to take advantage. This means that if you can stand the loss, it means that you are blessed enough.
why does he always take advantage and try to be brave? It is because he has too few blessings, otherwise he can't live. Then let him go. What's the big deal?