Custom taboo:
In the old society, there were many taboos between urban and rural residents, which were manifested in all aspects of people's behavior. There are reasonable taboos, but most of them are feudal superstitions. Unreasonable taboos are gradually diluted and banned with the progress of society and the improvement of scientific knowledge.
1. Gold
Within a year, the same family got married and got married; The son-in-law looked at Wang Yue's parents and said, "Don't go out seven times, don't go home eight times"; The new wife is not vacant in the first month; Send the girl back to her husband's house, and she must arrive in the morning; The bride's family does not allow the bride to be clear; The new wife does not go out on the fifth, fourteenth and twenty-third day; Marry to avoid mourning, choose a wife to avoid those who have moles for a while; Men and women with the same zodiac can't get married.
Step 2 grieve
When you die in a different place, the body can't enter the inner room, and the coffin must be placed outside the house; Those who wear filial piety should avoid entering the wedding room, and even more avoid entering the new house; People who commit suicide, lightning strike or give birth to death are not allowed to enter the cemetery, and they are not allowed to move in for more than 3 years; When the baby dies, it will be left in the "graveyard" and not buried; The death of minor children is called "minor death", and they are not allowed to enter the cemetery and occupy an area for burial.
3. House ban
The main house should not be shorter than the south house, and the vertical bricks on the short roof should be raised; The first house cannot be higher than the first house of two neighbors; When the house rushes to the road, it must be equipped with signs such as "Taigong is here" or "Taishan Town House" when rushing to the wall; The first house was not built in a leap month; The hanging house must be shorter than the main house; The gate cannot collide with the door of the main room; The fence cannot collide with the main room.
4. guest ban
When going to dinner, father and son should avoid sitting at the same table; Pour tea for guests and avoid pointing the spout at people; If there are elders present, they can't be the chief, and they should be ranked according to their generations; Male guests are present, and women are not allowed to sit down; The Lord can't stop eating until the guests are full.
5. Disease prohibition
When treating a disease, don't put "three sets" of medicine, that is, windowsill, pot table and kang table; Don't reverse the prescription, and don't return the pot that borrowed medicine. It should be kept by the borrower, and whoever uses it will take it. Children with acne rash, the gate is red, avoid people avoid ringing; Visiting patients should arrive in the morning, and it is said that it is cloudy in the afternoon.
prohibit
Don't move knives, scissors, needles and other metal objects during the Spring Festival; Don't sweep the floor, take out the garbage, draw water, swear, or abuse children. Married daughters should avoid living in their parents' homes during the Spring Festival.
7. Other taboos
When people are 100 years old, they say they are 99 years old, so avoid saying they are 100 years old; Avoid putting chopsticks on the bowl when eating; After borrowing a bucket, don't choose to return it. You have to choose one and return it by hand. Pick the sender, fill two buckets of water, not empty buckets.