A successful career begins with setting appropriate goals
A successful career begins with setting appropriate goals
Introduction: Goals are strength, struggle Only then can you succeed
If you study the success trajectories of some successful people, you will find that most of them had their own clear goals before they achieved success. American success scholar Napoleon Hill has a famous saying in "Get Rich in One Year": The starting point of all achievements is desire. The higher the goal a person pursues, the faster his talents will develop. For those who move towards their goals wholeheartedly, the whole world will give way to them. Hill believes that all success must first establish a clear goal. When the pursuit of the goal becomes an obsession, you will find that all actions will lead you towards this goal. Goal is strength, and struggle will lead to success. All people in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, who have developed intellectually and achieved success in their careers have clear and firm goals. Former British Prime Minister Benjamin Disraeli was originally an unsuccessful writer. He published several works but none of them left a deep impression on people. Later, Disraeli entered politics and determined to become the British Prime Minister. He overcame numerous obstacles and was successively elected as a member of Parliament, President of the House of Commons, and Chief Justice of the High Court, until he achieved his set goal and became Prime Minister of the United Kingdom in 1868. Regarding his own success, Disraeli summed it up in a short speech: "The secret of success is to stick to the goal." A clear and firm goal is the basic prerequisite for success and achievement, because a firm goal requires The significance lies not only in being able to persevere in the face of various setbacks and difficulties, seizing opportunities for success, and turning dreams into reality step by step. More importantly, it is also that being in adversity can generate huge passion for progress and maximize one's potential. and release.
Story 1: A follow-up survey on the impact of goals on life
Harvard University has a very famous follow-up survey on the impact of goals on life. The subjects of the survey are a group of college graduates with similar intelligence, education, environment and other conditions. The results are as follows:
People at 27 have no goals;
People at 60 have vague goals;
People at 10 have clear but short-term goals. Goals;
People with 3 have clear and long-term goals.
Over the next 25 years, they began their careers.
Twenty-five years later, Harvard conducted a follow-up survey on this group of students again. The result is this:
3 people have worked tirelessly in the same direction for 25 years, and almost all of them have become successful people from all walks of life, including many industry leaders and social elites;
People in the 10s continue to achieve their short-term goals and become professionals in various fields, and most of them live in the middle and upper classes of society;
People in the 60s live and work stably, but have nothing Almost all of the people with special achievements live in the middle and lower classes of society;
The remaining 27 people have no goals in life, live a very unsatisfactory life, and often complain about others, society, and this "unwilling" Give them a chance” world.
In fact, the only difference between them is: 25 years ago, some of them knew what they wanted, while others were not clear or not very clear.
Story 2: A new life begins with a chosen direction
There is another story that also illustrates the importance of clear goals and directions to the success of our lives:
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Bissell is a small village in the Western Sahara Desert. It is located next to an oasis of 1.5 square kilometers. However, before Ken Levin discovered it in 1926, no one here had ever walked out. Big desert. Ken Levine, a fellow of the Royal Academy, certainly does not believe this statement. He asked the people here the reason in sign language, and everyone's answer was the same: No matter which direction you go from here, you have to turn to this place in the end.
In order to confirm the authenticity of this statement, he conducted an experiment and walked north from Bissell. As a result, he walked out in three and a half days.
Why couldn't the Bissell people come out? Ken Levine was very puzzled. In the end, he had to hire a Bissell man and let him lead the way to see what happened? They took them for half a month. water, leading two camels, Ken Levin put away the compass and other modern equipment, and only carried a wooden stick behind. Ten days passed and they walked hundreds of miles. On the morning of the 11th day, an oasis appeared in front of them. Sure enough, they returned to Bissell. This time Ken Levin finally understood that the reason why the Bissell people could not get out of the desert was because they did not know the Big Dipper at all.
In the endless desert, if a person walks forward based on his feeling, he will walk out of many circles of different sizes. The final footprint will most likely be in the shape of a tape measure. Bissell Village is located in the middle of a vast desert, with no reference points for thousands of kilometers. Without knowing the Big Dipper and having no compass, it is indeed impossible to get out of the desert.
When Ken Levine left Bissell, he took a young man named Agutel with him. This young man was the person who worked with him last time. He told the young man that as long as he rested during the day, At night, you can walk out of the desert by walking towards the brightest star in the north. Aguter followed Ken Levine and arrived at the edge of the desert three days later.
Now Bissell is a pearl in the Western Sahara Desert. Tens of thousands of tourists come here every year. As a pioneer of Bissell, Aguter’s bronze statue was erected. In the middle of the small town. There is a line of words engraved on the base of the bronze statue: New life begins in the chosen direction.
From the above two surveys, we can see that success requires clear goals and directions.
Story 3: What would life be like if there were no goals?
What would happen if we had no goals in life? Here's a real-life example of what happens when a person loses sight of his or her goals:
In the early morning of July 4, 1952, the California coast was shrouded in thick fog. On Catalina Island, 21 miles west of Sea Rock, a 34-year-old woman waded into the Pacific Ocean and began swimming toward the California coast. If successful, she would be the first woman to swim across the strait. This woman's name is Florence Goldwick. Before that, she was the first woman to swim across the English Channel from both the English and French coasts.
That morning, the seawater was so cold that her body was numb, and the fog was so thick that she could barely see the boat escorting her. Hour by hour passed, and millions of people watched her on TV. On several occasions, sharks approached her and were shot to scare them away. She's still swimming. In the past, her biggest problem during such cross-sea swims was not fatigue, but the freezing water temperature.
Fifteen hours later, she was numb all over from the cold sea water. She knew she couldn't swim anymore, so she asked someone to pull her into the boat. Her mother and coach were in another boat. They told her the coast was close and told her not to give up. But she looked toward the California coast and saw nothing but thick fog. Dozens of minutes later - 15 hours and 55 minutes from her departure - they were put on board. A few more hours passed, and she gradually felt much warmer, but then she began to feel the blow of failure. She told reporters without thinking: "To be honest, I'm not making excuses for myself. If I had seen Lu Nan at that time, maybe I could have persisted." The place where people pulled her onto the boat was only half a mile off the coast of California!
Later, she said that what really made him stop halfway was not fatigue or cold, but the fact that he couldn't see the target in the thick fog. For once in her life Miss Chadwick did not follow through. Two months later, she successfully swam across the same channel. Not only was she the first woman to swim across the Catalina Channel, she also beat the male record by about two hours.
Although Chadwick is a good swimmer, she also needs to see the target in order to muster the energy to complete the tasks she is capable of.
Therefore, when planning for your own success, never underestimate the importance of setting measurable goals.
Having goals or not is the dividing line between successful people and mediocre people
Using simple mathematical knowledge, a straight line is the shortest between two points. Assuming traveling at the same speed, if a person sees a clear goal, he will, like Ken Brunley in the second story, try to move forward in a straight line and reach his destination quickly; and if a person If a person does not see the goal, he will be like the Bissell man who is groping in the vast desert based entirely on his feelings, wandering aimlessly and zigzag, and may eventually find that he is back to the starting point, or after many years of After all the hard work, I came up empty handed and got nothing. No matter how old a person is, his real life journey begins from the day he sets a goal. The previous days were just going in circles.
Goals, like watersheds, easily divide people with similar qualifications into a few elites and a majority of mediocrities. The former controls his own destiny, while the latter drifts with the tide and spends his life in vain. When a person makes up his mind, there is often nothing that can stop him from achieving his goal. Once you have the desire for success, you will have a strong sense of mission and responsibility and work hard for it. There is a proverb in the West: Take what you want, as long as you pay the appropriate price. A philosopher said: "Those who are determined to climb the peak will always find a way." A strong motivation can drive people to overcome many difficulties without the need to raise their whip. If you still don’t know what height you want to reach in life, then please write down your goals and work towards the goals in your heart unswervingly. In this way, you will keenly capture the opportunities for success and successfully reach your ideals. situation.
Only when we set goals for our lives can the brave, determined, persistent, and fearless self deep in our hearts come out, and we can maximize our potential and become more capable. Be prepared to meet various challenges on the road of life. American singer Mariah Carey has a famous masterpiece "Hero", the lyrics are very well written:
Deep in your heart
There is a hero
You don’t have to be afraid of who you are
If you explore the depths of your soul
you will find the answer
and the so-called pain will melt
Then
The hero comes to you with infinite power
Let you put aside your fear
Confirm that the difficulties will eventually be overcome
Discover yourself
Become strong
You will find
The hero is in your heart
So, we We must dare to dream and set challenging goals. Only in this way can our potential be maximized and it will be easier to succeed in the future workplace.
No matter what, we cannot have no goals
Of course you will say that although people often say "where there is a will, there is a way" and "nothing is difficult in the world, only those who are determined", but in reality This is often not the case. Indeed, "what you want to do" and "what you can do" are not the same thing. Everyone's ability, talent and understanding are different. If we set a goal, we may not be able to achieve it 100%. However, if we don't A goal makes it even more difficult for us to succeed. Because there is a foreign proverb that goes well: If you don't even know where you are going, you often won't get there. There is also an old saying in China: If you want to get it, you must seek the top; if you want to get the top, you must seek the top. Therefore, regardless of whether the goals we set can be achieved, goals have important positive significance for our success.
Of course, in addition to our own conditions, there are many internal and external factors that affect success, so it is also very important for us to set a reasonable goal. When we have been working on something for a long time but cannot see any hope of progress or success, then maybe it is time for us to reflect. Combine our interests, hobbies, talents, talents, abilities, and conditions to see if we are going the wrong way.
If you go the wrong way, it doesn't matter, then carefully look for another one.
In any case, we cannot be without goals, because even though our initial goals were wrong, after readjustment, we still have hope of success, just a little late. However, if you and I have no goals at all, then our hope of future success can only be described as "slim". . . . . .