Lin Yutang said that what is the greatest happiness in life? We have been pursuing happiness all our lives. But many people never have an accurate definition of happiness, only the real self doesn't know that everything he has is happiness after enjoying it. When we lose it, or when we don't have it, we will feel that we have experienced happiness. In my opinion, there are three happiest things in our life.

First, children want to raise, and relatives are still there. For children, I think the most painful thing is that when they once helped and wanted to repay their parents, they were old and could no longer feel the beauty of life, and some even left us. Parents grow old much faster than we grow up and work hard, so I think the happiest thing in life is that when they want to repay their parents, when they have become old people, they are still there and they still have their parents.

Second, the career is smooth and smooth. In our life, we have long been committed to our own career. If our career really goes smoothly during this period, people will feel very happy. If we live all our lives and do a job that makes us unhappy, we naturally won't feel happy. The significance of work has gone far beyond the time when we get a lot of economic returns, and they can also enable us to realize the value of life.

Third, family harmony. If a person's family is harmonious, the relationship between husband and wife is good, the children are obedient and the family lives beautifully, I think such a family is a kind of happiness. Everyone is pursuing happiness. Maybe what he has now is happiness. If a person learns to satisfy and control his own desires, he will know how to enjoy and cherish what he has now.