1. Kindness to the right person will make you grateful; kindness to the wrong person will make you feel cold. If you give a soft heart to the right person, they will love you deeply; if you give a soft heart to the wrong person, it will make you sad. Tolerance to the right person will make you enthusiastic; tolerance to the wrong person will make you feel at ease.

2. You have to believe that luck in this world is conserved. The suffering you are suffering now will eventually turn into the sweetness you like. You can just treat it as a long vacation, take a good rest, and wait until the time comes. , life has just begun.

3. No matter how indulgent the environment is, you must have requirements for yourself and maintain a self-disciplined temperament. Maybe it can't change your current situation for the time being, but over time, what it gives you back will definitely surprise you. People who have high requirements for themselves will never have a bad life. People who follow the crowd and complain about the bad environment are the most boring people.

4. In this world, there are some places that are unreachable. Someone you can't get close to. Things that can't be done. Feelings that cannot be possessed. Defects that cannot be repaired.

5. Unless you take a tumble, you won’t know who is willing to stop and wait for you. If you don’t ask for help, you don’t know who will care about you at the critical moment. Everything happens for a reason. Remember, time will teach you to see each face clearly.

6. Patience is not to prevent you from dealing with the matter, but to avoid doing something embarrassing to yourself when you lose control of your emotions. You will know in the future that there are really few things in life that are worthy of our courtesy, education, character and structure.

7. There are some things that don’t need to be considered, time will prove everything; there are some people that don’t need to be seen, and people with different paths don’t agree with each other. Things in the world can be solved by people in the world; principles in the world can be understood by people. In the face of injury, smiling slightly is open-minded; in the face of insults, ignoring it is extraordinary.

8. The road of life can be difficult or easy; the feelings in the world can be cold or warm. There are some things that you have to do even if you don’t want to do them, and you have to do them even if you shed tears; you have to let go of some feelings that you can’t let go of, no matter how painful or tiring your heart is, you have to let them go. Not everything can comply with your wishes; not everyone can understand your intentions.

9. Life is a journey. The road you travel is the life you weave. We cannot predict the future road. What we can control is the current self. Cherish everything around you and walk your own path. Road, don't leave yourself with regretful scenery in your life.

10. No matter how difficult it is, be strong and hold your head high. Life is an awakening, not yesterday, not tomorrow, just today. Live in the present and look to the future. Life is an attitude, and the world will be broad when the mind is calm. Different you and me, different mentality, different life.

11. No matter which day it is, it will pass. A day will pass if you do nothing. A day will pass if you do a lot of things. A day will pass if you don’t eat. A day will pass if you are in a bad mood. A good day will pass when you are in a good mood. Why not live happily every day?

12. Be calm, so you won’t get hurt; be calm, so you won’t be annoyed. Desire is like the boiling water in the pot, and the human heart is like the tea in the cup. The water boils because of the heat of the fire, and the heart is not surprised because of the coolness of the cup. When desire encounters coldness and settles in the heart, it will not be troubled or troubled. Don't laugh at other people's efforts and don't underestimate other people's achievements. Everyone has different values, no need to disdain anyone. What seems useless in your eyes may not really be useless.

13. The emptiness of life does not lie in the loneliness of the person, but in the loneliness of the heart; the wisdom of life does not lie in being good at observation, but in being good at discerning; the search in life does not lie in thousands of mountains and rivers, but in the close proximity; The realm of life lies not in blind following, but in self-exploration.

14. There is a great self hidden in everyone’s heart. As long as you are not decadent or negative, and are always quietly brewing optimism, cultivating open-mindedness, and persisting in kindness, as long as you are on the road, there will be no Far places that cannot be reached!

15. Most people, most of the time, can only rely on themselves. I don't have much background, I haven't met any noble people, and I haven't gone to a good school. These don't matter. The key is, which path you are determined to take, who you want to be, and how you are prepared to deal with your laziness.

16. People should take a dim view and relax their mind. The length of life is no longer than spring, summer, autumn and winter; the breadth of life is no longer than north, south, west and east; the impermanence of life is nothing more than joys and sorrows.

17. No matter where you are, you are not stuck in place, because you are a person, not a tree. If you want to be happy, you don't need to care about the attitudes of the people around you; if you want to move forward, you have to leave where you are now and move forward hard.

18. We put off many things to tomorrow. It’s not that we can’t do it today or that we don’t have time today, but it’s because of the habit of pushing and procrastinating that we have developed for a long time. We always think that it is just a matter of time. There is nothing late, no changes will happen, but many regrets will be formed "tomorrow", and "the past is no more" has become the eternal law.

19. Whether you are happy or not depends on your mood, and whether you are happy or not depends on your mentality. In a long life, nothing can be seen at a glance. A moment of success is nothing, and neither is a moment of failure.

20. As long as you are alive, you cannot predict the future. Fortunately or unfortunately, you have to persist until the end to know. Therefore, the quality of life depends on the mentality. If you have a good attitude, bad things will turn into good things; if you have a bad attitude, good things will turn into bad things.

21. Before you speak, listen first; before you respond, think first; before you spread, be cautious; before you make profit, be frugal; before you commit, be first; before you Before you do it, endure it; before you go home, be polite; before you quit, try it. If you can take the first step, there will be fewer regrets in life!