In Rao Xueman's novel "Leaving Songs", there is a particularly outstanding boy named Mao Bei.

From small to large, Maobei has hardly suffered any setbacks.

My family is well-off, my parents love me and my grades are the best in my class.

Before the college entrance examination, he also vowed in front of his friends: "I must be admitted to Peking University in the future!"

But on the day of the college entrance examination, he forgot to bring his admission ticket and had to rush back to get it.

By the time he comes back, the exam has already started for half an hour, and he can't take it.

Mao Bei didn't go to the next few exams.

He locked himself in his room and shouted at his parents outside the door, "I've lost a whole door, so why take the exam!" " "

On the night of the college entrance examination, Maube opened the window and jumped out of the world.

In the film and television circle, there is a director named Qian Hu.

Very young and talented, only 29 years old, has published two books, made art films and directed a film by himself.

But his life is full of twists and turns and poverty.

All the manuscript fees add up to only 20 thousand, and my girlfriend ran away

The film with high hopes was cut by the producers, and it was cynical.

He can't hold on any longer. He ended his life with a white rope in the corridor.

Just five months after he left, his posthumous work "The Elephant Sitting on the Floor" won the Best Film Award at the Berlin Film Festival and was praised by the judges as "a masterpiece of art".

Unfortunately, he will never see these again.

After this story, let's go back to the previous question. What is a person's most reliable ability?

I can carry things.

If a person wants to succeed, he may need high emotional intelligence, high IQ and so on, all of which are very important.

But the most important thing is whether you can handle some things well.

Can't bear it, all efforts are in vain; Only by persistence can we have a higher future.

A person's most reliable ability

02

General Patton has a very good saying:

"The measure of a person's success is not the height at which he reached the peak, but the resilience at which he fell to the bottom."

When life comes, those who can withstand heavy pressure and fight back are really strong.

Some time ago, I saw an anonymous netizen share a particularly inspirational story on Zhihu.

This netizen, before 18 years old, his father started a company and his family didn't worry about food and clothing. His biggest worry every day is probably how to get more points in each exam.

However, in the year of 18 years old college entrance examination, my father's business failed, he was cheated by others and taken away by the police, and his family owed 78 million bank loans and foreign debts.

My mother was unhappy all day and shed tears in the middle of the night several times. My brother is out of control and often comes home in the early hours of the morning.

He didn't want to see his mother cry again, and he didn't want the family to collapse like this, so he put the pressure on himself.

He gave up a prestigious school in other provinces and chose a university in this province to take care of his mother.

In order to pay off his debts, he rented a venue and opened a cram school. Under the scorching sun of 40 degrees, he stuck at the school gate and distributed leaflets to recruit students.

I kept preparing lessons and giving lectures until my voice was hoarse, so I got through it with throat lozenges.

That summer vacation, he earned 65,900 yuan and only spent 600 yuan on eating and drinking.

Although there is still a long way to go to pay off the debt, I still have to support my family, at least I don't have to worry about suddenly losing my house.

Seeing the resilience of this netizen, I believe that no matter what happens in the future, I can't beat him.

There is a good saying: "You can accomplish as much as you can handle."

Throughout the ages, people who have made great achievements are particularly able to carry things, and they have repeatedly lost and fought, and the more frustrated they are, the more brave they are.

Sima Qian overcame the pain of castration and wrote Historical Records, which has been passed down through the ages.

Su Shi has been demoted many times, but everywhere he goes, there is always a lofty taste.

Luo Yonghao is in debt of 600 million, trying new things to sell goods live. It was paid off in less than two years.

The Austrian poet Rilke once said, "Without victory, persistence is everything."

In this world, there is no smooth sailing forever, and there is no easy success.

Behind all the Excellence and scenery, there are many unknown pains and hardships.

Don't lose heart, life has knocked us down, get up and fight again.

A person's most reliable ability

03

There are two kinds of people in anti-vulnerability.

The first kind of person is Damocles, with a sword and a horsehair hanging from his head. It seems that everything is calm, but it is difficult to resist any risks. The sword may fall at any moment, killing Damocles.

The second kind of person is hydra. Every time a head is cut off, two new heads will grow, which is more powerful than before.

When things happen, whether we are killed by difficulties or grow two new heads on the cut head depends on our attitude.

1. Don't worry, keep working hard for a long time.

Someone once asked Lu Yu:

"The program has been done for more than ten years. You have interviewed countless people. What do you think is the most precious thing in them? "

Lu Yu said quietly, "Don't worry."

Everyone interviewed by Lu Yu, even the most successful people, have been frustrated and feel that life opportunities are too dark, too dark to be black.

But they are not in a hurry, they can endure and persist.

In this life, there will be calm waves and vacillations.

If the waves of fate hit you, don't worry, let alone give up.

Hibernate for a while, continue to exert yourself and work for a long time. Turn big difficulties into small troubles and solve them bit by bit.

2. Live an optimistic life. If you can't resist fate, you will enjoy it.

I have seen a picture.

A person's most reliable ability

A courier brother accidentally collided with another motorcycle while delivering beer, and the beer spilled all over the floor.

The passing urban management was worried about him and came to ask.

He looked at the beer on the ground and picked up two intact bottles, one for the chengguan and the other for himself.

Li Ka-shing has a famous saying: "Optimists see opportunities in disasters; Pessimists see disaster in opportunities. "

There are always sudden big and small blows in life, which we can't predict and resist.

Only by learning to enjoy can we live a better life.

04

The philosopher Russell once said:

"Life is like a river. Sometimes the river is narrow and sandwiched between its banks. The river roared, flowed over the boulder and flew off the cliff.

But once in the past, the river gradually widens, the banks are farther and farther apart, the river flows more smoothly, and finally flows into the sea and blends with the seawater. "

In this life, people never lack something that turns our lives upside down.

But no matter what happens, don't lose heart, bite your teeth and hold on.

Inch by inch, one clearance after another.

One day, those injured places will definitely become our strongest place.