Some friends say that they are used to being in a unit or department, familiar with interpersonal relationships and work content, and unwilling to transfer again. This is a common psychology.
Who wants to leave their homes and walk around? Unless you are a restless person, don't want to gain anything, and want to seek * * *. Someone must disagree with me when I say this. It seems that people who often transfer their jobs are restless people! Don't agree!
Yes, I don't agree, even I don't agree. This society has changed too much, and the variables are even greater. We are so small inside, how can we protect ourselves? When a company goes bankrupt, we must change it, whether for business reasons or policy changes. Many once-red, purple and oil-rich units have suddenly become loss-making and bankrupt enterprises in social changes, and employees have been laid off and unemployed.
Therefore, when the overall environment changes, we have to be forced to change.
The other is artificial change, that is, one's inner feelings. There are also two situations: one is not caring about secular views, just seeking inner spiritual home, carrying a backpack as a donkey friend, driving a broken jeep to see Tibet, and running around on the road every day; Some people keep changing jobs in order to learn more about the management of systems and industries, regardless of temporary gains and losses. These are all voluntary.
The other is forced to change. A person not only wants to earn money at work, but also wants to develop himself. Intellectuals want to work creatively and be respected. The satisfaction of these wishes sometimes exceeds the desire to earn money.
If these ideas can't come true, I will feel depressed inside. The mind decides everything is an article I wrote. In fact, if a person wants to adjust his mentality at this time. We also need understanding, support and hope for development. An enterprising and ambitious person, who doesn't want to make some achievements? ! There are always a few people who want to muddle along.
But objectively, interpersonal relationships may not be allowed, the development of the unit may not be satisfactory, and the strong inner call is so clear that anyone with brains will fall into pain. I often struggle between reality and ideal.
Many people who have just left school are enthusiastic, but gradually cool down after work, and finally get drunk and insensitive with the wine in the bar. I believe many people have this experience.
When you wake up drunk, nothing changes. The next day, you will still face what you suffered yesterday, and you have to smile.
I think that "wandering" (ha, a fashionable name) between the struggling heart and the cruel and unsatisfactory reality is something that many people do every day.
I think some things need patience. Something needs to change. Some people will ask, how would you define this line?
I want to say that in fact, there are only a few things to survive in society: making money, development and interpersonal relationships. It's good to want all three aspects. Problems are often not so perfect.
In an organization, if you have opportunities for development, have good interpersonal relationships and earn less money, it is tolerable. If you can make money and develop, but your interpersonal relationship is temporarily in trouble, you can also be patient. A unit can earn money, and its interpersonal relationship is OK, that is, it may never develop itself, so it is also safe to eat this "Antai rice". It doesn't matter whether you want to be anything or not.
However, if you earn less money in an organization and your interpersonal relationship is tense, let alone development, then you must resolutely leave your job! It is not only a place of right and wrong, but also delays your life. You will be poor forever, and you will be poor forever. I used a few here. This is not a language barrier, it is a state of coexistence. )
Instead of letting the soul "die" in humiliation, it is better to rise up and resist. The aphorisms such as "If a tree moves, it will die; if a person moves, it will live", "If a person struggles upwards, water will flow downwards" and "If you hang yourself, you should find a big tree to hang it" are all very useful at this time. What you need to do at this time is to encourage yourself to break the habit you are already familiar with, dare to get out of this familiar "cage" and fly out to find a new place to live. Maybe the new place is not as terrible as you think.