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How to maintain one's dignity
Man has dignity, which is determined by his social and economic status and power. People of different social classes have different dignity. The rich have the dignity of the rich and the poor have the dignity of the poor. The dignity of the rich and the poor, the dignity of officials and people, and the dignity of rulers and ruled have never been equal. In a complicated class society, as a member of society, how should we maintain our dignity? As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. This is a realistic law to safeguard self-dignity. The poor always like to be with the poor, the rich always like to be with the rich, the officials always like to be with the officials, and there is always a clear line between slums and rich areas. If a poor man always likes to go to the rich or officials, it means that the poor man has lost his basic personality and dignity, and has become a real slave, accustomed to the humiliation and ridicule of the rich and officials, and willing to be discriminated and ordered by others in an attempt to lick the leftovers of the rich and officials. If there are rich people who always like to appear among the poor, it is also to show off their wealth, win the flattery of individual shameless poor people, rarely get along with the poor or sincerely sympathize with them. As for an official who frequents the poor, his purpose is mostly to put on a show, earn political money and win votes. It is definitely not care and sympathy for the poor, which is rare. An official who really cares about, sympathizes with and sympathizes with the sufferings of the lower classes will not live in luxury mansions, stay in luxury hotels when traveling, sit in luxury cars, drink famous wines and eat delicacies, and lead a dissolute life in dance halls. An ordinary person can only be with ordinary people if he wants to maintain his dignity. If you are poor, you will get along with the poor, if you are a farmer, you will get along with farmers, if you are a worker, you will get along with scholars. Here, the social status determined by economic status is equal, and there is no question of who is higher or lower, and there is no question of who looks down on whom, so we can get along very harmoniously. A group of people were talking loudly in a humble pub, calling each other brothers and guessing boxing orders. They must be poor, and there will never be rich people and officials in them. If there were rich people or officials, there would be no such lively and cheerful atmosphere. At a rich man's party, several poor people mixed together. The poor man is afraid to speak or seldom speaks. He knows that no one listens to what he says, even wisdom. His heart is very painful. He doesn't want to appear on this occasion. He wears it most of the time. He knows better than anyone that he has no personality and dignity on this occasion. At the banquet of a senior official, ordinary people and junior officials rarely mix together. If there is, it also belongs to those who have lost their personality and dignity, such as flattery and flattery. There are exceptions, that is, individuals who have to be wrapped up and brought in. On this occasion, these people can only sit uncomfortably, listen to the nonsense of officials, have no freedom of speech, have no pride in drinking, and occasionally say a word, which can only be humble. Because, on this occasion, their personality and dignity are suppressed and their hearts are extremely uneasy. 20 10.03.20.