2. When a woman reaches a certain age, she must throw away four things: meaningless wine games, people who don't love you, looking down on your relatives and fake friends. But you must have four things: self-confidence in your face, kindness in your heart, backbone in your blood, and power engraved in your life.
Maybe others give you comfort and encouragement, but you never know how many arrows are in your heart. There is no such thing as empathy. You never know how much it hurts if you can't get a needle. Therefore, no matter how many grievances, how uncomfortable, remember that it is yourself who can heal yourself in the end.
You are lucky to have someone to help you, and it is just fate to have no one to help you. No one should do anything for you, because life is your own and you are responsible for yourself.
5. Be a man of few words, but be a man with the sea in his heart. Don't hurt others, be peaceful and comfortable in indifference.
6. The day you like is the most beautiful day; The right lifestyle is the best lifestyle.
7. The more experience, the less I want to talk. If the environment is different, others may not understand what you want to say, and you will gradually learn to bear it yourself.
8. First turn yourself into what you want, and then meet someone who doesn't need to please. Friendship, love and life are all the same. You have to give yourself a sense of security.
9. Everyone with strength gritted his teeth and spent a period of no help, no support and no care. In the past, this was your bar mitzvah. If you can't get through, beg for mercy. This is your bottomless pit.
10. Never mind the original oath. The moment of commitment must be true, but there were too many accidents later, and no one expected to separate.
1 1. We are all fooling around like children because of dependence; Politeness is because of strangeness. Take the initiative because you care. I don't contact because I feel redundant.
12. Sometimes, you choose to keep your distance from someone, not because you don't care, but because you know that ta doesn't belong to you. Don't fantasize, maybe the most beautiful thing is never to meet again. There is a city in everyone's heart, where an impossible person lives. That man has gone through youth for a while, but he will stay in his memory for a lifetime.
13. If a person misses you enough, he can't help thinking of coming to you. He won't talk to you until you talk to him. Friendship or love, there is no shyness between them.
14. Time will precipitate the truest feelings, and wind and rain will test the warmest companionship. What goes far is just passing by, and what remains is the love worth cherishing.
15. Don't tell others about your bad mood. Anyway, sleep at night, go out to play during the day, eat and drink well on cloudy days, and listen to the rain on rainy days. Remember, one day, a beam of sunshine will dispel all your haze and bring you great light.
16. Don't care too much about other people's feelings. Don't be nervous when others are lost. Don't be soft-hearted when others apologize. Don't always make others happy and be wronged by yourself. Think for yourself. Why do you have to be exhausted? You are too sensitive, too kind, and too kind people will suffer in the end.
17. There is no time in the world that you can't squeeze out, only appointments that you don't want to go. Every choice is an internal orientation.
18. Life is always a dilemma. No matter how persistent and unwilling you are, you should learn to accept those who are no longer pure. From crying and complaining to smiling, in the final analysis, this is just a carefree situation.
19. People are destined to meet two people in their life, one is amazing and the other is gentle.
20. Don't miss a person who loves you deeply, because in everyone's life, there may be only one such person, and this person may only love once.
2 1. No matter who you meet, he is the one who should appear in your life. It is no accident that he will teach you something.
22. Don't give everything at every turn. Instead of humbling yourself in the dust, leave some pride and love for yourself and get along well. It is better to miss each other than to meet each other, and it is better to meet each other after a long separation.
23. Throw away things you don't like, people you hate get blacked out, sleep when you are unhappy, delete tired photos, confess when you meet people you like, and eat favorite food when you are hungry. Life is too short for you to hesitate.
24. Don't rely too much on anyone. When he doesn't look for you, accompany you or coax you, you will feel very uncomfortable. Habits are really terrible.
25. All people and things, just have a clear conscience, don't force it if it's not yours. Anyway, what is left is the scenery and the life.
26. Growing up may be becoming more and more silent, that is, the process of turning crying into silence, receiving emotions in places that others can't see, and one must learn to be strong.
27. There is always a time in life when we are full of anxiety, but we have no choice but to face it bravely.
28. Nothing in the world is truly eternal. Friendship will die. A love, separated, broke up. Cherish what you have now, maybe the next second, it won't belong to you anymore.
29. You will meet many people in your life. Some people love you, some people are jealous of you, some people value you, and some people don't take you seriously. You are injured, you are tired, you are lost, you are missed, and all this has nothing to do with people. You are responsible for your future.
30. You have met all kinds of people to know. It turns out that no one in this world will love you except your parents, trust you unconditionally and always treat you well. You should have known that it will be dark and people will change. Life is so long and the road is so far. You have no choice but to rely on yourself.