four wedding phrases in Chaoshan
1. Silver pearl oil in a new bed,
New quilt and new silk,
The bride and groom have good feelings,
They are free to sing together.
2. When the bride and groom get married,
everything goes smoothly,
the army has made great achievements and started a business,
it will be promoted to be a general in the future
I wish you both kindness and love.
wedding greetings from Chaoshan people
1. May you two be kind and loving, and your love will last forever and grow with each passing day!
2. Let this lingering poem ring the bell of happiness. I wish you happiness and love forever.
3. the Millennium is bound to be a Millennium, and a hundred years of body will accompany a hundred years of sleep. Natural talent and beauty match, only envy mandarin ducks but not immortals.
4. May happy songs accompany you forever, and may your married life be filled with joy and cheerfulness, and you will be bathed in endless happy years.
5. It takes ten years to get a boat ride, and a hundred years to get a pillow. Finding her in the vast sea of people is clearly a fate thousands of years ago. I wish you both happiness and harmony.
6. At this moment of celebration and blessing, may God guide your marriage, like a river flowing into the sea, and become one, no longer two, and it will be endless and endless!
7. I send my most sincere wishes to you newly married people: May love be sweet, your mood be sweet, your life be sweet, and your career be sweet. Never leave!
8. May you be the wind, with white sails; I wish you were a boat and cut the blue waves. Life is smiling in front of you, bravely step forward and embrace the colorful life.
9. It takes ten years to get a boat ride, and a hundred years to get a pillow. Finding her in the vast sea of people is clearly a fate thousands of years ago. I wish you both happiness and harmony.
1. Marriage is established by God, and a happy marriage is granted by God. May our God give you and your families all the blessings in heaven, the blessings hidden in the earth, and the blessings of childbirth and lactation!
11. There is only one miracle in your life when your dreams come true, and your whole world suddenly becomes beautiful and novel. I wish you happiness forever!
12. Cherish this love as treasure, and walk into this emotional temple gently to feel every wonderful moment.
13. In this spring-blooming day, you two will always be friends, as the saying goes, a pair is made in heaven and a pair is born in the earth! I wish you both kindness and love, and grow old together!
14. I wish you a long and harmonious relationship! Happy wedding, sweet and sweet!
Chaoshan wedding customs and etiquette
1. Marriage
After meeting and talking, the two sides got to know each other and thought they could be partners. The matchmaker took the woman birthdates and sent it to the man, which was called a wedding invitation. The man put the Geng Tie in front of Si Mingjun's throne, and if there is no unlucky omen in the family within three days (such as breaking the rice bowl, pot, etc.), it will be good for three more days. Then they exchanged Geng posts with each other. Ask fortune tellers to marry each other, and think that the next step can be carried out.
2. Look at the family style
After meeting and talking, we got to know each other, and both sides thought they could be partners. The matchmaker took the woman birthdates and sent it to the man, calling it a wedding invitation. The man put the Geng Tie in front of Si Mingjun's throne, and if there is no unlucky omen in the family within three days (such as breaking the rice bowl, pot, etc.), it will be good for three more days. Then they exchanged Geng posts with each other. Ask fortune tellers to marry each other, and think that the next step can be carried out.
3. Hiring and rehiring
After the marriage is preliminarily decided, it will be hired by the woman, and the employment form should be folded into twelve editions in red paper. Bridal gifts include cash, sugar, jewelry, clothes and so on. After the man receives the employment order, he can reduce it as appropriate, but generally he does not reduce sugar. Because the sugar is prepared for the woman to give to her relatives and friends. The engagement fee can be reduced, called? Reduce employment? . Now it is generally written that the engagement fee will be sent with it. In the reply, the man can also specify what gift he wants from the woman, that is, add the word (Zuomu Yousheng) at the end of the betrothal gift, and write the following items, such as X pairs of contract and X pairs of blessing cakes. The matchmaker will send the employment form back to the woman until there is no disagreement between the two sides. The engagement fee doesn't need x hundred as an integer, because of dialect? Hundred debts? Bad luck. Add a few figures after the hundred. Chaoshan people should have a double mantissa, such as four or eight. Because the four are homophonic with the world, it is called the world is good. Hakkas use nine, nine and long homonyms, which are called long and long.
4. Make an appointment (Wen Ding)
After the engagement instrument is agreed, the man chooses the date according to the dates of both men and women, and carries out the engagement ceremony, which is called making an appointment. On the same day, the man made a conical sphere with brown sugar, called sugar mother. Because sugar is homophonic, it means that sugar mother passes on to grandchildren. Some people use white sugar instead of sugar mother. Put pomegranate flowers on the sugar. Add brown sugar, cash, jewelry, etc. to make up four samples (of which cash and jewelry can be used to pay for the employment). The woman returns with two sugar packets, usually with wine cakes and sugar. Take its symbolic yeast and ferment Changrong. After receiving the candy, the woman distributed it to her relatives and neighbors to give them good news. After the date was decided, the man decided to fix his face, cut his hair, marry his birthday, and send it to his wife's house, which is called a day off.
5. Offer and re-offer
On the day of offer, the man sent someone to give the bride price to the woman, including the bride price, brocade tea (including bridal bag), jewelry, three animals, duck eggs, noodles, etc., and a wine bottle is indispensable. The quantity should be one Kyrgyzstan, and items such as Kyrgyzstan can also be increased. The woman returned bananas, contract, pig hearts, bean balls, five kinds of seeds, a pair of shrimp grass and spring grass, and taro seeds. Twelve kinds of red eggs were placed on a handkerchief, and rice swill was filled in the hip flask, as well as the gift money for reading the bag. The man received a gift to cut the pig's heart into two sides, and one side was sent back to the woman. The husband and wife shared a pig's heart and called the liver and lungs concentric. Plant spring grass in flowerpots, carefully maintain it, and distribute bananas and contracts to relatives. It takes about ten days to get married, and invitations will be sent when bananas are sent and contracts are awarded. The woman will also invite her own in-laws that night. The bride's dowry is generally a basin, a bucket, a chair and a dowry in the room, such as a dresser and a gown cabinet. In the first half of the 21st century, rich people have a kind of dowry called Quanting Mian, which includes everything necessary for bedrooms and halls. Such as kang beds, round tables, drum chairs, paired armchairs, suitcases, five buckets (rice bucket, bowl bucket, foot bucket, waist bucket, toilet) dressing tables, gold and silver jewelry, even kitchen tablecloths, and even life boards (coffins) and land deeds in some places. Of course, the engagement fee is much higher. Around the 193s, what was the name of Hakka dowry? Drinks . What drinks go with what dowry. Drinks vary in height, and the lowest level is called? Rooster? The man only needs two Jin of pork, two pots of wine and several pairs of eggs to send the woman. A higher level is called food? Hey? , the third is called food? Hey? . The fourth kind is called food? Some? , the highest level is called food? (Zuomu Yousheng)? . According to the grade, the bride's dowry is different, of course, there are also simple and complicated differences. This has become a historical topic and has been gradually simplified.
6. Get married and marry