1, don't talk nonsense. Not speaking at the same frequency is the biggest taboo. For example, most people don't like each other to say east and you say west. How can the other person be willing to chat with you under such circumstances? Even if I continue to chat with you, it will make people feel uncomfortable, and I feel that chatting with you is actually very embarrassing. For example, if the other person says he is working overtime, you can reply what you are busy with, when you get off work, and go for a snack after work. This reply is wrong. The other party has explained that he is working overtime, which proves that he is very busy and has never had time to reply to your message. When girls are busy with their own affairs, men with higher emotional intelligence generally choose to quit in time, leaving a good impression on each other and making them feel like gentlemen. Confessing with girls must not be stupid enough to go straight up and confess, as the news said, which will make girls in a state of despair. Finally, I will say that you are a good person and send you a good card to leave. Be sure to make full preparations before you confess. Let the girl have a good impression on you through chatting, let her remember you for a long time, and then confess, and it will be easy to succeed. I didn't understand this before, and I expressed my love to many girls, but they were all rejected. Later, I learned so much after reading the book of picking up girls, especially the chat inside, which is handy to use. Now I'm chased by a bunch of girls. It's really a counterattack. Brothers are strongly recommended to read this book, the manipulation of love, and there are e-books on the Internet. 2, dating should be active, dating is the main reason why girls want to find a boyfriend is to find a rely on, not to find a son. For example, when we usually go out for dinner on a date, girls say it's good to eat casually, while boys keep saying that they can eat casually, so that the other party can make up their minds. Sometimes they feel like gentlemen, but they are actually stupid. Girls casually say, not that they don't understand, but that they don't know what to do or don't want to be a boss. If such a small matter is decided by the other party, it will make the other party feel very troublesome and feel that you are more like a son than a dependence. So learn to make decisions in time. 3, rational response to emotional topics When girls talk to you about emotional issues such as predecessors, you should pay attention to the pit in this topic. Sometimes if you are not careful, you will fall into the pit. For example, if a girl says that her ex finally broke up, then you must not say: What happened? Are you hurt? In fact, there are many possibilities when the other person confides in you. Don't think that the other person regards you as a candidate boyfriend. She probably just wants to find a trash can and find someone to talk to. Maybe even play tricks on you. The best solution is to change the subject and talk about something happy or something between you. Chatting with girls on WeChat Skills 2 and chatting with girls on WeChat 1, weak suggestions If someone asks for directions in the street, we will generally give directions enthusiastically, because we have gained self-worth and moral recognition in the process of guiding. And if we ask a girl a question in her field, in the same way, she will be willing to use her small ability to solve our big problems at will. For example, "A Chord Arrangement of Guitar" (she plays the guitar very well and is proud of it) and "The Historical Story of a Certain Red Wine" (she knows a lot about red wine, and there are high and low) 2. Interest Sharing We seem to be sharing our interests, but in fact, after we did our homework, we inadvertently showed her interest and made a small plot at the beginning. Of course, the difficulty of operation lies in the word "unintentional", which needs to be reflected by her time span or hidden depth. For example, "I finally finished a perfect tennis button today" (she used to be a tennis expert a long time ago) and "I found a very small and beautiful song" (in fact, I just searched her listening ranking on a music platform through the same id). Talking about movies. Turn on the phone, find Baidu, search movies, and there will be tens of thousands of results. Obviously, if you talk to her about movies, you will have a lot to discuss. The easiest way to talk to girls about movies is to start with the latest blockbuster. Then talk about some similar topics, or invite girls to introduce some movies to you, and you can continue to share your feelings with her after watching them. As soon as two people communicate, the chat will naturally go on ~ don't worry that girls will refuse your request. Are very keen on Amway movies. Chatting with girls' wechat skills 3 and the preface of girls' wechat 1, chatting with girls' wechat with wechat information, we can chat with some information around us, such as her avatar, her circle of friends, or the content in her circle of friends, even her personality signature and so on. , can be used as an opening remark. For example, "Your head is so cute" and "Personal signature is very inspirational, I like it". Girls only like boys who can arouse her emotions, which is why girls like bad boys. Picking up girls is skillful, otherwise girls will only reply you with "uh-huh, oh, hehe" when chatting with you. 2. Make her happy. The girl is a creature. When she is happy, she feels that everything you do is right. When she is unhappy, she wants to find fault with everything you do, and even feels that you are making a mistake when breathing. Therefore, chatting well with girls, getting along well and making her happy are essential skills. Only when she is in a happy state and keeps a happy mood when she gets along with you can your relationship develop smoothly. You can make fun of yourself, such as teasing yourself, or pretending to be narcissistic. Girl: "You know so much." Boy: "Have you seen my head? Why do you think it is so big, because it is full of knowledge! " Girl: "You are so interesting." Boy: "That is, I have never lost to anyone in talent." 3. Direct invitation is also a good opening remark when inviting girls directly. When you chat with a woman, just tell her, "There is a new store downtown, let's try it." Whether your date invitation is successful or not, you can talk to her for a long time, at least this time your chat is successful. If she knows you well, she may agree to your invitation, and then you can discuss the date. If she doesn't know you well and refuses your invitation, you can also chat to enhance your feelings with her.