What are some ways to stay away from scumbag men and get rid of the danger of love? 1. Refuse to develop too quickly and make him wait for a long time

If a boy has chatted with you for a while and only dated you a few times, he will ask to establish a relationship with you and then use the name of loving you. , eager to have sex with you. Then you must pay attention. At this moment, you must keep these two aspects in mind.

First of all, the first point is to control it. No matter how many sweet words he tells you at this time, how many surprises he creates for you, you should try to stay rational and awake, and don't be blinded by the current appearance.

Then, the second thing you have to do is to make him wait. You know, if a boy really has feelings for you and wants to start a serious relationship with you. Then he will definitely pay attention to your intention. Even if you say that you are not fully prepared at this stage and want him to wait carefully for a while, he will not care.

What if it’s a scumbag? When he sees that you keep refusing, he realizes that he can't get any benefit from you at all, and he still needs to keep having trysts with you, making people happy, and spending time with you. Then he will definitely be unable to hold back his temper. He feels that rather than doing that, it is more convenient and faster to adjust his position and find the next target. 2. Identify risk signals and refuse to give in.

In fact, when a boy gets close to you, if he is just a scumbag who just wants to cheat, then he will definitely exude a unique risk. Signal - short selection signal. If you can identify it early, you can easily avoid being tricked by him.

If a boy just wants to have fun, and does not want to love your partner with all his heart, then he will definitely have the following symptoms: every time you meet, he always wants to make an appointment at home , and then often lead you to the topic of "sex" when chatting, and even after they have just met, they will ask you for some "sexy" photos, or they will start to "sex" you after just meeting a few times. "hairy hands and hairy feet" and making some overly intimate physical contact.

When a boy takes the above actions in the early stages of getting along with you, then you need to pay attention. This is just a risk signal sent by him. In the face of this request, no matter what kind of sweet words the other party uses or what kind of "appropriate" excuses they find, do not take it at face value. The correct approach is to give in stupidly and simply say no immediately. 3. Improve observation ability and slow down concentration

Why are some girls deceived by scumbag men, and often become extremely sad and worried after being deceived? The reason is that in this relationship, they really gave their sincerity and left their hearts. Therefore, once they realize that their sincerity is just a tool used by the other party to introduce, they will naturally find it very difficult to accept it.

So how to avoid this situation? The answer is - slow down your concentration. When you meet a boy, no matter how articulate or attractive he is, you must slow down the rate at which you express your sincerity. You don’t have to fall in love so deeply as soon as you get together that you wish you could give the other person all your sincerity and sincerity.

We must learn to observe carefully and pay prudently. After you have truly understood a boy's family situation, his position, his personality, and truly come into contact with other people's micro-life WeChat Moments, then try to develop from the shallower to the deeper. As the saying goes, it is difficult to paint the skin of a tiger, but it is difficult to paint the bones of a tiger. For a young person, we must observe all aspects of him, understand the more real him from the small details in life, and then slowly open his heart. Only in this way can you You can protect yourself faster. 4. Think divergently and risk your life to survive

If unfortunately, you meet a boy who obviously sends a dangerous signal to you and is very anxious to establish a relationship with you, the development trend will be even more serious. The next step in “intimacy.”

So how can you protect yourself better and let this kind of scumbag avoid you as quickly and automatically as possible? There is a method that has been tried and tested, and that is - to survive after death. What does it mean? In fact, it means that you deliberately do things that reduce your charm and make boys feel bored. For example, you deliberately make yourself look ugly in front of a boy, or you try your best to show that you like him even though you know what he dislikes. If a boy hates girls gossiping and always talks to him about mindless dramas, then you also Just talk about this kind of topic vigorously.