When I graduated from college and had a stable job, established my own network of contacts, and my family started urging my boyfriend to get me, and my family became more anxious, then everything was ready. , people in my family also particularly hope that I will get married at this time, so I will probably step into the siege of marriage.

In fact, some people say that marriage is the tomb of love, but a marriage without love leaves no place for love to be buried, and even two random graveyards cannot be found. I feel that I do not yet have the ability to support this family and dedicate myself to this family. I still don’t quite understand the responsibilities of marriage, and I don’t understand what marriage means. What is the difference between me getting married and not getting married? What kind of preparations should I make? This is when I haven't figured out what marriage is. I will never step into the siege of marriage. I probably won't get married while I still need two more years to play, when I still feel like a child.

When I really want to get married, I will be in my twenties or seventeen. By that time, I have graduated from college and have been working for several years. I have experienced what society is like, I have had a little social experience, and I have seen the world a little more clearly. I have lost the immaturity of a student, I know what it means to live a life, and I know what responsibilities I should have to bear when I get married. , and also know that she is about to become a wife and mother, and how to be a good wife and mother. No matter what happens in life, I am always in a state of learning. When you get married, you have to learn to be a wife and a mother. When you work, you have to learn to be an employee. So it is natural for me to get married when I am ready.

Anyway, I don’t think you should rush into getting married, because in my dictionary, getting married is a lifelong matter. You have to be responsible for your partner for the rest of your life, maintain the family well, and have a balance. A good relationship with family, career and friends is the best marriage at this time.