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The continuous drizzle really makes it hard not to be happy for things, and it is hard not to be sad for yourself. Especially in this autumn. But since the students have been actively trained on the first day of school, I will set a good example. In this sad rainy season, try to dig something positive.
? W hasn't been to school for three weeks, and it hurts me to look at his empty seat every day. Beautiful youth, it's time to study, but he is at home. Is home really that attractive? So when he is at home, all the other children come to school? I am curious. I want to find out. I have invited him to his house twice. My principle is to invite students to school, but no more than three things. But for W, even if he goes for the third time, he may not be able to persist. But if the children really don't come, will they give up? This is not my style. I have always felt that children's growth is more important than their grades. I will try my best to keep the child in school first. As long as he can persist in going to school, there will be opportunities and hopes for change. So I'll talk to my parents by phone first and see if I can get my children to come to school by calling this number. After the phone call, I said to my parents, "Please tell my child that he hasn't been to school for such a long time, and his teachers and classmates miss him very much. Although the teacher is very busy, I still want to take time to invite him. But from what my mother said, the children have to go to school, so I won't go. It was very late this morning. If he is afraid of coming so late and leaving a bad impression on other students, he can not come this morning, come back to school after lunch and breakfast, and be the first student to arrive at school. Tell the child like this and see how the child reacts. What would you say? " Parents agreed. Sure enough, the child arrived at school early in the afternoon. I was so happy that I called the child to the office and asked him to sit down. We had an interview.
? When asked, "What made you come so early today?"
? The child said, "It's boring at home."
? "Are you? I am curious: if you are really bored, why would you rather be bored at home than come to school? "
I don't know, I just don't want to come.
? "Is it really so terrible and painful to go to school?"
"No, I don't know why I don't want to come."
"You haven't been here for such a long time. What did you do at home? "
"Read, sleep when you are tired."
"Are you so sleepy and tired every day?"
"no"
"If you want to come, what efforts do you think you need to make?"
"I don't know!"
"Then let's discuss a problem, shall we?"
"good"
"Do you know why? I never gave up on you, but invited you to school again and again? Your parents didn't give up on you because you are his child and you are related to them. Besides, I'm not related to you by blood, so I've been paying attention to you and appreciating your little progress. Not everyone can do this. I have never given up on you, because I know you are just a child and I am a teacher. I don't want to see you as an adult again. The first thing you said was, teacher, I was not sensible at that time. Why don't you care about me? I would rather let you hate me now, and I will give you more opportunities to learn and change. Besides, I have never given up on you, because I have always believed in you, and I believe that you will get better. Even if your heart is made of iron or stone, I believe that one day, your heart will be warmed. At the same time, with so many classes and so many students, it can be said that it is also a fate to be able to attend a class. I cherish this fate very much. I don't know what you think? " The child nodded, and I continued: "Since you also cherish this fate, shall we make an appointment?" What do you think the teacher will do to keep you in school? I don't expect much from you. As long as you can come and stay in school, you will make great progress. Although you don't have much time in class, I find that as long as you come, your performance in class will satisfy all the teachers. You can not only concentrate on the lecture, but also take notes carefully. You see how rare this is. "
The child nodded, and I continued: "Do you remember the article" Mr. Fujino "written by Lu Xun just learned?"
"Remember"
"Is Mr. Fujino good to Lu Xun?"
"good"
"Then how did Lu Xun turn his gratitude to the teacher into action?"
"There are photos of teachers hanging at home. Whenever I feel tired and want to be lazy at night, as soon as I see the photos of teachers, I immediately have motivation and courage."
"Well, that's nice. Do you think I deserve you? "
"hmm"
"Then can you turn the teacher's kindness to you into action?"
"good"
"Well, in order to remind you to go to school on time, I went out in the rain today and bought you an alarm clock."
"No, sir, I have an alarm clock."
"Of course I know you have an alarm clock, but I still want to give you one. When you can't get up in the morning, get up and go to school as soon as you hear the alarm clock I gave you, okay? "
"yes"
"Well, would you like to sign a written agreement with the teacher?"
"Very good."
I took out a pen and paper! The child quickly wrote down his ambition book. After the child finished writing, I said, "Man, keep a promise, keep a promise!" Do you want to add this sentence? "
The child quickly added: "I am a man! When I say a word, it's hard to catch up, and I will definitely do it. "
After the child finishes writing, sign and date the back. I immediately followed and wrote, "I believe you can keep your promise, Zhou Qing".
I believe in the power of faith.