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How do mature people chat?
Friend Alai just changed the signature of WeChat to: "Don't go out behind closed doors, no chatting."

The reason for this is that she has recently experienced too many inexplicable, time-consuming and emotional WeChat chats.

For example, someone wants to add her WeChat, and the note says "business cooperation". As a result, she didn't respond for a day, or Alai took the initiative to ask, "What do you want to see me about?"

As a result, another day passed before the other party replied and asked, "Are you there?"

Loy immediately replied, "Yes, what can I do for you?"

As a result, the other party did not reply again. It took more than half an hour to send a paragraph: "After reading your article, are you a psychological counselor?"

Loy was speechless at once, so you don't know what I do. Why don't you talk about cooperation?

Too many similar things have happened, and Loy is exhausted. It is said that she is going to turn off WeChat. Call her directly if you need anything.

Wechat is a great invention in the new era.

It facilitates the communication between people, but it also shows the maturity of people like a mirror.

Really mature people can always show their high emotional intelligence through the tool of WeChat. Immature people can always say, "Are you there?" In the process, people lost patience with him.

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People who can chat on WeChat cherish time.

As an entrepreneurial media, I have contacted many entrepreneurs, business people and even government people, and found that they all have one thing in common:

Every time they chat on WeChat, the messages they send are concise and clear. They don't talk about family, but talk about things directly.

For example, last week, a friend who was starting a business wanted to invite me to dinner and asked me how to play the blockchain. This is what he said:

"Tang Yi, I'd like to invite you to dinner this weekend and ask you about the latest wind direction and gameplay of blockchain now. Because you are familiar with this situation, I need this information urgently. I wonder if you can help me? Next time if you want an interview with an entrepreneur, I can also hook you up. "

You see, the theme is clear and the logic is clear. When you come up, it means that you are looking for my advice, and even I know what I can get in return.

If someone talks about WeChat, only "Are you there?" "Are you free?" Then his time must be very worthless, and most of the things he wants to talk about are not important, otherwise how could he put his mind on such greetings?

He not only wastes his own time, but also wastes other people's time.

It takes some toothpaste-squeezing questions and answers to know their true intentions. If his purpose is not important, wouldn't it be a waste of other people's time?

Really mature people will cherish their own time and others' time.

They know that time is the most precious thing in the world, and not wasting each other's time is the best respect for each other.

In their eyes, time can be directly converted into glistening silver, and every minute is money. A waste of time is a waste of money.

Fan Deng, a teacher at Fan Deng Book Club, said that she seldom travels. Why? He said that he had calculated an account, and he could earn 80 thousand by teaching for half a day.

But if he travels for a week, not only does he not earn a penny, but he may also spend 80 thousand. In this way, the cost of a week is 640 thousand.